Is it just me

Why do people set up a profile with out a picture. Then you get this big message from them about how they would like to friends. I am not shallow I know it not about the look of a person that makes them. But if you are going to talk to some you like to know who you are talking to.

Maybe it is just me?
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i like to think that the faceless ones are really famous people who are lonely
wave 1r1, yep that wrecks my head as well... that being said I can understand why some don't have a picture but if their really interested in you... they could always send you their mug in an ecard.
I will always reply with a polite mail lol. rolling on the floor laughing
I have made friends, and dated, people with faceless profiles.

It doesn't bother me in the slightest.

I would be more bothered if they told lies on the their profile.
Hello fellow Dubliner. I think with Ireland being such a small place, a large village really ? that many Irish men in particular don't put their photo up.
I used to get annoyed, because I felt , hey ! I put a photo up and not a photo shopped one, just me on an ordinary day... nothing glamorous. It isnot an equal playing field.

However, most men have been happy to email me their photo. They are shy that somebody that works for them will see they are on a Singles Dating site. [outdated thinking but they cannot help how they feel].

I used to think they were all married.... but that isnot always true. I do understand how you feel though. I do prefer to see a proper photo, not a one where you cannot see the eyes and expression [like yours !!!!] Just being honest. Thats kinda the same as a faceless pic. Best of luck anyway.wave
Hi G

I have more than one picture ans in one of them you can see my eyes. so I do not get your point at all. My profile picture is one of me at The giants causeway.
This topic has been bashed around so many times and both sides have an opinion.
From my observations the people without profile pictures are more likely to be mistrusted !!!
That's just my opinion

You don't shop in the dark

You don't cook in the dark

You may go on a blind date but you expect to see your date ...

So I agree

The site should enforce their own rule and not have double standards...

Once again JMHO

Any CS members who feel this is a personal attack on themselves are probably the ones without a profile picture up
Hey I know people like to see a picture, but read my blog a book without a cover, when it comes down to it most people would read the book without the cover....I could put a picture of me as a 20 year old model and still message you as me...will you feel better because you can see a picture that you think is or might be me, would it lull you into a false sense of security? The difference is I'm not hunting a partner so I'm not fussed what people would think anyway, I put half face, bum on bike whatever as I'm me and comfortable with that. But if your serious about meeting someone then i agree a picture may help your situation, and you might get more replies to your messages, but until you let someone in or read their profile to see if it sounds ok you'll never know!
Yea... I can see an epidemic of "Blurriness" and "Half faces" on the rise.. mumbling
I would never put up a false picture.
I may be blurry, but it is a blurry me.
If I didn't have this pic up, I would just use one of the generic blank faces,
Molly... so you're actually not blurry in real life? wow

Man.. think of the possibilities! yay

Sorry.. the drugs still haven't left my system.. wink
Molly said:
"I would never put up a false picture.
I may be blurry, but it is a blurry me.
If I didn't have this pic up, I would just use one of the generic blank faces"

Subscribe your words one by one quotation marks included



.....and no, I'm not blurry either outside of CS rolling on the floor laughing
Sup.. well I guess its good to know that the disease is only restricted to CS.. wink
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