Hanging out. Is it a boy thing?

I've heard that venues exist for females, but it would seem that most are not daily, and are usually dearly commercial. Hairdressers, Tupperware parties, Mary K shows, etc. Perhaps some volunteer and Church affairs. But why so many daily gatherings for males, In nearly every culture. Cafecito Cubano and dominoes on the Caribbean island slave paradise, and elsewhere. Turk Kafe in Istanbul, and as in other lands of the religion of piece, water pipes with share tube mouth pieces. The first peebles sweat lodge. Laate night smoky 5 card draw. And more. many Peekid progressive sissy man wannabee political community organization meetings excepted. But I recall my younger days, when it was street corner gangs. Dreaam was to be allowed to hang out with the " 8th Streeet" punk toughs, or Flint section crowd. Watch pufter Leonard Bernstein's musical. I recall the adolescent drive to just somehow belong. the braggadocio, always pierced with vulgar tales of s*xual exploits, rarely true, but one never knows. We never came to blows, as we feared the coppers, unlike today, where the flat feet shoes are often on other feet. Somehow the Church and Synagogue were tangentially a part of it all. But folks, one still sees it. Sitting here in McD's saving on wifi, cheap piker as I am, and there are fully several such groups ranging in age from late 50's to what must ne nonogenarians. Mo wifeys in tow. Discussion ranges widely, but retains a few familiar central themes. What is it about us fellers. Is it now hard wired in the genome as from caveman days selection. Can there be similar groups for borh genders? For several genders? Have the corner non violent groups evolved into the likess of MS 13 als cogeners? I miss those days. Don't miss most Priests, Rabbies and Cantors, not to mention boy scout leaders and some ministers..Aa.