and ask "why me" and beyond that anger ...
need a hug now.
Good listener with simple likes and dislikes.
A good mum and a partner.
Someone here to count on.Hard working.
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Women get very sad, and then cry, so our Anger is hiding sadness and dissapointment too.... it has to come out and the tears have alot of stress hormones which we expel when we cry , salty tears.
So it is actually very good for you to cry. Let the tears flow. Take care of yourself.
Many people cannot cry and if they did, it would stop alot of pent up anger, sadness and subsequent illnesses and heart attacks.
Suppressing it does more harm in the long run.
Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance
You got this.
It's a moment in your life that you don't need to let it define you.
Either you have to accept the fact that caused you the pain.
Because if not denial comes in and it follows negative vibes
that later you will just be hurting yourself.
Go on stand up its never too late to have a good life if you
Keep the faith and hope.
okay, but if reading your blogs turns me in to a Woman,you`ll have to answer to my Mom
crying makes me know I'm still feeling and veth much alive.
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Gloss your right the stages of how pain stays.
"You can't describe the feeling and you can't explain the pain..."
Just need time
Crying can be cleansing.
It's better to release it than allow it to build up.
it's a natural part of the healing process.
I project myself on how mad I was that I cant do otherwise but to just cry it out
Nobody could tell I was practically sobbing as I just looked like I had a very punishing workout.
wherein the tears just fall of from your eyes
not knowing we are already exhausted
It is good to take a step back and reflect on what is going on in your life! In other words, what is making me or causing me to feel like this. If you can pinpoint this, in the future you can possibly avoids this repeating itself!
JMO
And yes Fayzed
I think of my younger sister who seldom cry even we are all crying for a certain reason.
But when dad and mom died gosh I just feel relieved when I saw her crying
"Why Me?" Part...That You Mentioned?
"Made Me Remember A Girl...... Who Was The Wife.... Of A Friend of Mine"
"Her Name Was Linda...(I Did A Blog On Her Some Years Ago)
"She Was In The Final Stage Of Cancer"
"She Had Lost All Of Her Hair....And Had Lost A Lot Of Weight"
"One Day.... When I Was Visiting At Her Home...........She Was Crying"
"The Doctors Had Just Told Her.... She Had... Maybe...3 Months To Live"
"And As She Was Crying?"............."She Looked Right Into My Eyes....And Cried Out Very Loud"
"Why Me?!!!"
"I Was Frozen....I Didnt Know What To Say"
"So Sometimes?......."When I......... Or Anybody Else Cries Out..."Why Me?"
"And Its Not About Losing Our Life?"
"It Is Then...... That We Should Realize"
"It Could Be Worse".............................
Hope u made the doctor stop screeming
yes it happen the same here in my country.Some people pretend to be so they can get your attention
I give some help esp the blind along the street.
and burst into tears. Given her a big hug made her more emotionally unstable.
A need for someone just to listen and a pat on someone's back would mean a lot.
Happiness is of course within.
Sometimes we are not really honest with ourselves, (just little white lie here ant there not big ones
Oh but I believe this or that
Happiness is of course within.
Sometimes we are not really honest with ourselves, (just little white lie here ant there not big ones ) and when truth rushes forward, perhaps little white lies we didn't admit I'm lonely, perhaps even little bit frightened because I am of course alone, even at birth time, I was actually alone nobody could read my mind so I cried and at death time I'll ll be alone to.
Oh but I believe this or that the little white lie
Indeed heppiness is within
In the course of our life we live in during this pandemic, it hard but need to accept it.
There were pain along the way that caused depression to others. But I wouldn't deny it that I had it.
Yes it is possible to justify white lies under the scenarios of surprising somebody but usually it's not something you should do it's not really a good thing it's still lying.
Tatami
I think life rotates in all angles but the center of it all is yourself. The journey you have to take that makes your life the reflection of your experiences,struggles and yourself
In my line of work itself
I made lots of mistakes that taught me the best experience which those mistakes turned me who I am today