Hurt another woman?

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My ex-bf in the Philippines has had a gf since 2016. She loves him a lot. At first he said she was just a close friend and kept asking about when i go back to the Philippines again. Now he can't hide anymore and he askes if i want him to leave her and get back to me...

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I m tired of being alone, i m dying for giving love and being loved to make my own little family. But this doesn't feel right...

What should i do now?

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LS he was hiding? _you OK..
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Hi Ashlander. how are you sis?

No. we broke up in 2014. but now he says he still misses me and want to meet me again. he will leave his current gf if i go back to him
Be careful because if he can do that do her, he could also do it to you. Be very careful.
I am sorry to say but he seems like somebody who is mixed up emotionally, Not stable.
He has lied. He has been unfaithful to the other woman.

He doesnot know what he wants.
We all get lonely. Being lonely is not a reason to go back to a man who will hurt you again.

Believe me, he will. He is not good relationship material.

Go by your Gut feeling. you said 'It doesnot feel right' Your inner feelings are warning you.

You deserve better, a fresh start with a man who knows his own mind and doesnot mess with others hearts. Take care, somebody who deserves you will come along.hug
Thank you,I'm fine.
You would be engaged.,.? and move again.
Do you Know if she is the reason why it didn't work
out before.
maybe have a chocolate ice cream
Thank you all sis and bro teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Laststrike first i love the roses they are beautiful. applause

As to your other problem well i am different generation we stood for no nonsense and that carries through.

I understand lonely --- but if I was cold i would not stick my hand in the fire I would join a club and knit gloves making new friends hug teddybear
We broke up when i moved back to my country but he said he still loved me. Now he has a gf but he will leave her if i want him to. I feel so heartless to do that with the girl even though i really want to get married now. and you are right, if my gut feeling says it isnt right then i guess it is not
Oh lordy lordy .. I <3 Asian birds
Totally agreed with Track16, leave him and when you do the right thing you must get the right one soon. You should be strong,, and move on..cheers!!!
Old Bedoiun saying," Beat your woman daily....If you don't know why, she will". Aa.
He obviously doesn't have strong feelings for his current girlfriend if he would leave her for you.

Tell him to do the decent thing, and break it off with her and allow her to move on and find someone who loves her.

When he is single, he and you could then discuss your potential future.

But you don't sound like you love him either.

Not being alone is not a good reason to be with the wrong person
Tell him you'll give him another chance, so long as you can still see your current boyfriend on the side. It does not matter that you dont have one, I think his reaction will show you what its all about...
Sorry about your situation LS.

I would take Pat's advice and see what happens!thumbs up
Woah...make your own little family? What did he think about that since you are not engaged,and would need to relocate,find a new job and pay for your dream wedding,honeymoon,etc. first.
Stress is related to major changes.$$$$ Are you planning,or dreaming.
i don't think a person here can predict the future.

I cant have an opinion about strangers.

But it is sad what he does to his girlfriend. seeking excuses to dump her.
Pat
That one is the right advice ever to be

Laststrike your loneliness doesn't mean to
jump into wrong hurting hands just because
the pressure for marriage is on.

Put him on trials first
Or look elsewhere for new
good luck
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