i dont know anymore
i have been turned down 120 times in the last idk 3 months. IRL and online. sometimes a mixture of both. Been called ugly a loser etc. In both realms. I think that i wont find anyone that wants to even go see a movie. Here is what i mean:I got a date some how. (craigslist dont judge me), she text and called me. Turned out i knew her from class. She then tells me what movie, i say you decided i took the night off for a movie so i dont care if we dont click. at this stage i am feeling really good. take a shower. then a mexican shower (i am allowed to say that because i am mexican), so i not only look great but smell great.
I go to pick her up. her brother is outside, he is like oh you must be the guy.
"yeah i am the guy", i replied
"ok. ill go tell her you are here." answered back as he is going into the house.
10 minutes go by. 15etc.
sshe comes out says sorry i have to fix things. or something along the lines of that
i am sitting in my vehicle knowing its not going anywhere and anywhere fast.
she texts me saying that i am the f* ugliest person ever and to leave. I am not even playing when i say this either.
i go and sit in front of the movies. her and her friends walk past me.
one stops and asks why am i so sad.
before i could reply back the girls behind her say because he is ugly and has a small...... yeah.
these are the kinds of women that i have around me. they go to college.(i am almost out of college) and they are b and snitch.
so idk what i am going to do now. i am full of spite and hate. I am a very nice guy these feeling are horrible. I have had plenty of girl friends over the years. (only one that mattered). i just dont know if i can put myself out there again because i am fearful that ill turn into a mena person. idk why i even wrote this for.
guess i am just sad miserable etc. Heck i have a date next week but i know that wont go over well. (she is 10yrs older than me too which is ok i like who she is not her age) w/e
Comments (6)
I must be missing something here because from where I'm looking I see you as a tall dark handsome young man (5ft 10 is not small).
If you already know next weeks date isn't going to go too well, why go on it?
I'm sure you're not so desperate that your going to risk a date that will only end up possibly upsetting you even more than what you already are..
Only when you date someone you feel good about will you eventually find that one who will really matter to you, but if you keep dating the wrong types, your love life will never feel/be right.
You have time and looks on your side, so no need to rush it
You are rushing it, and women don't like to feel they're part of a speed-dating process.
That's 3 female points of view. Maybe a couple of guys will come on with some helpful advice. Good luck.
Find someone that has the same attitude and interests as you. Join clubs that your interested in. Go to a volunteer center to help old people out. Stuff like that!
Can you dance? Learn how to Salsa dance. Salsa Clubs have mighty fine looking women.
Me? I'm not so tall, I'm not so good looking and I didn't have a car until I was 21. But it didn't stop me from asking girls out. Some will slam you and some will accept you. Just go for it!!