The Fear of Heartache
by Lady JLife is tough when we are single again
Fear of pain, pain so overwhelming that it brings us to our knees
So when someone decides not to let someone else into their hearts
to keep them at bay, yes, they won when that person leaves
validating what they were protecting themselves from
Though in the end, they really lost
and what a truly sad way to
go through their life
if they don't let anyone ever in
they are guaranteed never to find the right person
hopefully they learn
because if they don't learn
they will ALWAYS BE LONELY
written by: one that was kept at bay
Time to move on and find someone
who is willing to risk sharing to
possibly discover something wonderful.
Lady J
Take care my friend, I don't want you lonely for the rest of your life.
Comments (5)
... thank you for sharing yourselves.
I know exactly what you are talking about too.
Someone told me to think of this as a school dance...
going to get toes stepped on... different partners..
but enjoy yourself.. enjoy the dance.
As usual your insight into particular aspects of relationships is amasing. As for me i have been considered by many to be a deep person. But as such i have a very indept understanding of myself and of my feelings. Sometimes people try in a round about way to discover reasons for such characteristics. This i feel is a very bad approach. For me a more direct approach from someone i care about is most important. Straight Talk. Since i know myself very well i already have the answers such a person might require which i feel would give them a greater understanding and acceptance in return for a more open and genuine me. Im not saying this will work in all circumstances or for particular individuals some people are as you say lonely souls.