There is something wrong!

Few years recently I sometime wonder if there is something wrong with myself?!

Because I CAN'T fall in love with ANYONE! I fall in love with being alone!

Is that mean there is something wrong with me?

Is there anyone here has same problem with me? uh oh
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have you tried lemon juice with honey...uh oh
think we all here have same problems
Hi MimiHN :)

Maybe you decide which kind of love you want. A person sees a puppy dog so cute n that person says " oh I love that puppy "...you see a man with nice muscles n tattoos n you say " oooo I love those big gorgeous muscles " ooo oo...but when you meet a man who rocks your boat or melts your butter who makes your heart flutter you say " I Love you so much "

Which Love do you want MimiHN ?

I want them all lol
I kind of have the same problem Mimi but the difference being its not because I've fallen in love with being alone, its because I can't fall OUT of love with the man I can't have.

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did you try women already? conversing
Here you are, young lady. I was wondering where you were and if you were still around.

Your just thinking to hard young lady. I want to tell you what I told my son when he asked me the same question. I always wondered why he was so distant to women and when I looked hard (I don't try to intervene in my kids life or friends lives either) I could see his shyness and things in his personalitythat might be hampering him.

My son is an intelligent and very handsome man. But he was having trouble finding a GF. He had been with a couple of women but their lives always seemed to be filled with drama. That was the first mistake and I told him right out.

I told my son to find someone that thinks like him. By that I meant someone that has a degree (he has a Masters Degree), find someone who will understand your work ethics (He's a hard worker and works alot of overtime because his job demands it and at $50.00 an hour he is doing quite well), find someone who is political or not depending on how he feels about politics. OK, that's a few examples of what I told him.

At the end of our conversation he seemed puzzled and that's because he had never taken that path. In a couple of months he met the woman that he is now married to. They had a wonderful courtship and they traveled together because once they got married they knew they were going to have children and things would suddenly stop, so to speak. When he proposed to his wonderful fiancee he did it on the Eiffel Tower in France!!!

They now have 2 handsome sons and they are all inseparable.

Do you see what I mean? Find someone who thinks like you. Since I don't know you I can't make a better call. But just read what I told my son because that is what I would tell you.

I am glad to see you again!!
Thank you!
Maybe you should loosen your conditions on who can send message to you blushing
I've been single for years, but I know it is not me.

Most people are superficial and materialistic.
Nothing wrong with being in love with lonelyness, its better than being in a fake relationship..
"The cure for lonliness is solitude," said painter Georgia O'Keefe. May as well become good company for yourself.
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