Drama
If I could create a program to sort thru profiles and weed out some of the most undesirable ones, I guess it would simply filter for the word "drama". Apparently, 96.7%* of the most inane people who place online profiles do so with some words to the effect that they have no and want no drama in their lives.I mean sure, I know what they are really saying is they don't want negativity and they want to avoid people with the tendency to argue and fight and such. Nevertheless it's pretty much like those people who say they want "someone real" or "no liars", "cheaters" and such.
Like all those dramatic lying, cheating sorts will read your profile, gulp and move onto someone less particular? NO! Of course they wont! Once you declare that you want no dramatic lying cheaters, it's like you've made yourself a magnet for said types!
As for those profiles fecklessly crying against "drama".... (evil grin) don't knock it 'till you try it!
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Yes everyone puts out their laundry list of everything they don't want in their lives because they already are suffering. Most just want a magic wand to wave all their problems away. A new relationship a home or job or something to escape the mess they made by their own doing and choices. There are 3 kinds of people out there Perpetrators victims and rescuers they are interchangeable based on various circumstances. Drama of life will always seem to be a constant in the human universe. The profiles that complain the most about it could be a warning sign they are full of it and themselves. Yet, this is supposed to be a dating social site so it claims hence, I wonder what is the point of being here? To learn about and be compassionate to one another rather than judging and criticizing. I find it more frustrating when people stop to window shop and I admit I do it to. However, when trying to initiate a conversation nobody responds. The lights are on but nobody seems to be home. I am aware CS posts fake test profiles from time to time. What they test for I know not. Anyhow, to me this blog has it's merit so I commend the OP. In a world gone crazy with war terrorism social Injustice and corruption it would be nice to have a place to discuss anything and everything that burdens us. There can be beauty and healing if we all work in harmony. Be the change you want to see in the world.
As you say, people who write what they do not want, will automatically attract people with those traits.
Also, if they write that they only want sincere, loyal, honest etc... one automatically assumes that they have had insincere, dishonest people etc. in their life?
good to see you writing a blog again...drama-free one!
Yeah, it rings true that people that denounce a thing are probably perpetrators of said thing.
Thank you everyone who commented.
I had not been on this site for ages. If I posted something similar to something that you posted, it was not intentional. No copying or pasting here. I have no trouble coming up with my own material when I feel like doing so.
Or perhaps I'm mistaken and that is not what you meant? Feel free to correct me if needed.
Thanks.
Akeldama, you make a lot of good points. Are you a psychologist?