Soul Mates...WTF is that?
OK, people, I'm trying to lighten up the mood here. Didn't want to post a blog or talk about this topic but would be interesting to know what's your take on this
Met a nice guy online, you exchanged nice messages, he's in another country, you met up few days later...coffee date turned into a very fun dinner date. There was instant attraction, you both connected...had a little bit of holding hands and some goodnight kisses and difficulty parting ways. He went to another country the next day, sent you lots of messages...said you're the one he's looking for and wants to have a happy ever after with you. He started talking about having kids and family and a happy life together. Promises to keep you safe and happy, wants to have a blissful life with you and children..., will do everything you ask him to and coming back in few days to see you again and talk about lots of possibilities and happy future. Ain't it he crazy? The whole thing sounds like a big joke...but the guy seems serious...mid- 40s, have a great job, very attractive, he's got it all ...a perfect catch.
Would you take him seriously?
and this one is called Dickie
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I don't believe in soul mates and never claimed to have one but this guy is sure I'm his soulmate
This guy claims I stole his heart and soul and crazy about me
If you are asking yourself these questions is cause there is already the posibility you are considering taking his offer..
What do you have to lose? He makes you smile, tries to make you happy, keeps you safe. Will do everything you ask ( that would surprise me ) ... If I was you, I would keep him away from the blogs, the way you are selling him all the single women on here would jump at the oportunity..
Go for it, smile and enjoy his company while it makes you happy and don't think so much about tomorrow cause no one knows whats going to happen anyway..
This song is for you.
maybe next blog is about wedding...?
He doesn't know that yet
Give the man a chance, why ask so many questions when there is no real answer if she doesn't try..
I guess I'm so optimistic cause it's going great for me.
When people come on too heavy too soon though, it can be a bit of a turn off.
It's better to allow things to move at a speed that suits both.
If you are going to be together forever, then there is no hurry.
I`ve seen so many couples hanging together for six-ten years, and then they finally marry.
-then two years later, divorse...
-but each on their own... I just hope it goes well in any case...
he already said he want to have kids with me, live wherever I want to live, wants to settle down now...and I've just started dating and loving my freedom right now!
She just asked a question....and I just shared my opinion. By no means, is it the gospel.
lol....just joking about the neck thingy.
...but actually, it sounds just darling. :)
Enjoy your life, don't expect too much, love the ones who love you and to hell with those who don't.
I felt it a bit and I have a feeling he's perfect down there....he said he can definitely have kids and if we come across any problem, we can do IVF...already!
I told him, I would love to call our kids Donald and Melania
WTF is right
he loves talking about our happy life and looks forward to spoiling our kids one ...promised to take me to nice places and make me smile everyday...
I keep asking him if he's OK and simply tripping...he said he's deadly serious
there you go again, always crack me up
he wants to have a little girl too, he said a mini me
Yes, I agree. I never believe in a soul mate...every time he goes loopy I want to think he's deluded but he's so sane and normal
yes...and nice body...funny, clever, well-mannered....how the heck am I supposed to turn him away?
Yes, it;s difficult to turn this one away...everything he says is heart warming, no vices, loves fishing, hiking, gardening and cooking...wants to protect and love me, wants to have a family with me...what else can I ask for.
The thing is, I'm suspicious why he so nice...why me, he could have someone way way better than a lunatic like me...many out there . At some point, I thought maybe he wants to marry me, get a life insurance policy, then I suddenly die or disappear...
I am sure he is fine. My ex-gf...whenever she got done watching one of those murder mystery shows....I almost got the sense that she was fearful of me.
a lot of things going on in my stupid head:
maybe he murdered his family before and feels the need to have another one...
maybe he's not straight and just want to have kids and family as a facade...
I'm still thinking of other bad reasons...
Let him chat, let him dream, don't give your keys up.
he thinks he can buy everything and he comes over as needy.
Maybe you made yourself seem hard to get and he enjoys a hunt. promises can be very cheap.
The light-hearted attitude concerning children is very weird. including your existing son, which i suppose he never met.
maybe there was something in the coffee.
or he has a hormonal disorder.
be back here later