Our love was unique until.......

6 years ago I met beautiful women at a party given by some friends. When I saw her, I thought she was just the perfect woman for me and I was sure about that. I wasn't looking for an older woman and Rose wasn't looking for a younger man, but it just happened. (I was 22 and she was 54 then.) Our relationship is unique, because it's not just built on sex, but on trust, respect and love. We are both morning people and nearly always in a good mood. We are both hard-working with many hobbies in common. In my opinion, age has nothing to do with our relationship. 6 of being together, we have never had a serious problem, since six months now her family interfering over relationship. Claiming I'm too young for they mother. this was the reason for our break up.
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But you say on your profile that you definitely want children.

Older women will not want/cannot have kids.

It is in these kind of real-life issues that the age difference kicks in.
My personal opinion is that the age gap is too great...i wouldn't consider a relationship with anyone more than 6 years younger....
However....glad you enjoyed your time together....
Sorry your relationship with Rose didnot work out. I do know you can have plenty of things in common with an older woman or a woman with a younger man, but sooner or later, you would want children, maybe you don't feel that way now, but after a certain age, it is natural, you would.

54 is still young in a woman, it really depends on the woman, her mentality, interests, hobbies, but when the family start to interfere, then it can be very stressful.

In reality, you are young and your family were right, in the long term, huge age differences matter, eventually.
I do hope you find somebody who has lots in common with you, in due course, when you feel ready to love again.

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think your codding us sure that could never work
I always believe the man should be older. That is a personal concept that has nothing to do with love. My grandmother's husband was about 35 years older and I loved their relationship. That doesn't mean you can't have that too...
@Molly its true i really love children.
But there's many ways of having children what matter is falling in love. They said true love doesn't ask why?confused
@Jazz we as human beings we have to follow your emotions and our minds without limitations, life is simple too many rules can cause loneliness and always looking and searching what its just next door.
They say love is blind applause
@Prof. We are living in the free society nowadays. I can't live someone's else experience, I'm have to hear they story. I'm dealing with my reality. I can't say to repeat my past I'm moving forwards to see what is the presence can bring dunno
Age is just a number drinking




Well, at least to me giggle
Not caring what other people think is the best choice that I'm proud to makecheers
Exactly, for that very reason I said my personal concept has nothing to do with love. Your life, you should be able to choose what makes you happy, not what other's think will make you happy.
Families are usually the problem, why they can't mind their own business is beyond me.
Sorry to hear your break up ,
Interfering Families can be the death of a relationship and I can attest to that, because my exes family did the very thing you mentioned to me and after 3.5 years the relationship was dead.

Be as kind to them as possible and do as much as you can to prove to them, that you are right for her and you are both happy together, but what ever you do, don't say anything bad about them to her, because she will end up turning on you and siding with them.

She might complain about them to you, but what ever you do, don't comment on what she says and don't give your opinion on them, because she will end up opposing you and siding with them.

The only chance you have of keeping your relationship intact, is to get on with them and be as nice to them as possible.

Hope things work out for the two of you.
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