Back on CS again after a failed relationship
This thought has been on my mind for months now and when I read what Calmheartseek on Kal's ' Weird ' blog wrote, I knew I have to put a blog up regarding this matter.If I may, Calmheartseek, borrow your comment,
" Isn't it kinda sad how we read on here how some CS members find someone, even blog or post about it, then a little time goes by, and the relationship breaks up or they are back on CS once again."
What I was thinking, say, someone like me who talks nothing but my relationship with Art all the time on the blogs and forums, much to the horror of fellow Csers
You'd hear how, against your wish, how we met, visit each other, get to know each other more and finally one of us decides to join the other in her/his respective country.
We then decide to no longer be active on CS. Well-wishers and congratulations abound.
Now, I also wonder, would it be better if I just slowly sneak right back into the blogs/forums again without telling fellow CSers about my doomed relationship.
OR
Do you think it's better to put a whole blog up announcing my comeback after my failed relationship just to make sure no awkwardness or uncertainty ensued?
OR
Do you think it's nobody business anyhow!
P.S Art and I are not in Troubleland just in case some of you are wondering
Comments (44)
I'll miss you on here as you are one of the good ones.
Well basically I think it is nobody's business except yours. It is your relationship and nobody else's.
After that, what you do, and how you deal with it, is totally up to you. Everybody deals with things differently. You would know the best way for you.
What you choose to do is obviously your own business.
A lot of people seem to like you a lot on here and I'm sure many will chat with you if you need to talk private.
The one thing I can say is ... regardless of any relationship break up... there were always some good times. So is it really failed? Perhaps it was meant to be there for a reason... or simply a season.
It's just something I've noticed over time.
I've been here quite awhile (don't ask me how long!) and I have seen this happen (get togethers, breakups, reconcilations, back again) on CS.
It's just a bit sad as we all want to find that one we can spend the rest of our lives with.
On the other hand, there are couples that from all accounts appear to be still very happy and in love.
Beautiful proof it does happen!
Post and blog on. We on CS all want to hear about love found, and rejoice with those who have found it, hopeful with them for a wonderful future.
Keep us up-to-date.
I love to hear stories of people finding love on C.S. I found what I thought was my Soulmate but it did not work
out understatement, he broke my heart! 2 years ago it ended.
Some people think it is a weakness to share, but I personally find it cathartic to write a thread or blog about it.
You are one of the nicest people on the Blogs and I wish you happiness.
Do whatever you like, the Blogs are for you. What other people think about you, is none of your business.
I hope that makes sense.
SOMEBODY LOVES YOU.
Theres someone who loves.
with a love that keeps growing.
as days come and go.
So remember that always.
each day the year through.
Someone Cares.
I Do.
Mimi's relationship is rock solid.
It was just a hypothetical question
So many people, so many types of relationships. Infatuation is a must in CS. All good. I like to "study" human behaviours pretty much, but trust me, anyone can lose his/her mind trying to understand mine. Let´s have fun ...until I get bored again or find what I´m looking for LOL.
My private life is private. Period.
Biff is right, a soap opera hahahahahahahaha
Just keep hoping and looking I'm sure you will find the right guy eventually.
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Just kidding. I did read the whole blog...
It never was a secret when I was with someone, but then I probably wouldn't advertise it too much to people I'm not too close to when I am with someone.
It is also sometimes possible to have to tell people that things are over, when friend kept asking me for weeks how the (at this stage ex guy) was, that was doing my head in and I just told him.
It is nobody's business other than the people you want to share it with. I had people I could talk to when a relationship ended and they genuinely wanted to be there for me, with others I wouldn't have discussed it. As for myself, I can offer a shoulder to cry on, but if someone doesn't want to talk, that's it and it is their own business anyway.
Hmmmm......I feel like I know you from somewhere......
Lukeon
Too funny!
Nonsmoker
And I don't care. I wanna make my business to know what you think of MY business!
KNenagh
You have to come back here more often!
JJ
It's a dating site in case you have forgotten!
You talking about your relationship brings a smile to my face every time.
I can't stop even if I wanted to...
You're most welcome.
And so love should be....
Anyways going back into total oblivion again....take much care and all the best with love.
What ever rocks...wish you well...
Next time I am in your country...will look you up...lol...
Art is a lucky man...
Indeed I am a very lucky man. It's a wonderful feeling to wake up each morning knowing that there is someone out there that truly loves me. Meeting in Spain is great but knowing one day I'll be spending the rest of my life with my Mimi is Heaven on earth..........
Who will open the pettion? Mimi´s NiceGuy needs to be cloning .....
Yesssssssssss!!!! Will take you to all my favourite haunts for the yummiest Malaysian food!
sorry I've not read any comments here but i'd do it my way, if i want to tell, then i would but if i didn't.. then i wouldn't., simple as end of and that's that.
Them that really respect you as a sharer will respect your privacy too.
That's what makes these virtual sites so interesting and the people behind them so intriguing to