When a relationship goes sour

Experiencing one of the most dreaded part of a relationship, at least to me, is when there's that uneasy moments of either you stay or leave.

What I notice is that the evaluation of the whole experience create a light that leads to that decision of either burning it or saving it. Depending on the weight of what preferences each party has, it comes down to the positive and pleasant experience over the bad and undesirable ones.

I have decided to stay because of the many reasons that I value most.

He gives me so much freedom and respect. He makes me laugh. He complements me sincerely. He loves my whole family and vice versa. Dependable and strong. Not that I require those per se.

He has none of the qualities I loath instead he has all the qualities that turns me on.

Thank you all for your reads and comments if any.

Note: in my previous blog, so many of you shared all your different and enlightening experiences and most of you suggested not to trust him again.
With the exemption of Luke, I think I read more in favor of dismantling the union.

Thanks all and I respect and loved sharing your great suggestions.

I made up my mind, not easy however, because he apologized so much, and very sincerely recognized how preventable it was.

May we all have a good day.

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Comments (8)

why do you feel it nessary to explain your life here ..for me somethings don't get aired good luck anyway
John lol..it's not necessary. I learn a lot on here and sharing and talking about experience may also let others learn.

In the blog rules if you read, you can write about almost anything.

Your comment is most disdainful, but thanks for your comment just the same.
Very good I hope you are happy again because I do enjoy reading your blogs.
Lin, relationship aren't easy but if you have decided to stay all I can suggest is to look at those things that's you love about him. The things that make you smile. Be happy and make things sweet. Just want to send you a hug and wish you happiness
Thanks K, wave it's truly a nice feeling to know some enjoy reading my blogs.

I'm happy K.
Dear beautiful Ish, there's more reasons for me to give him another chance and yes indeed, if both are committed to make it work, then the better for both.

Thanks. hug
Lindsyjones! Trust on both side must stay, then it always go good! hug
Thanks Benedicta.
Yes another chance, another start.
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