"WONDERING MAN"..("SAYING IT... LIKE IT IS")
1)When One Goes To A Cemetery...What Does One Do There?....And Why Does One Go To A Cemetery?.....Well...To Start Off With.... One Goes There Because.... One Does Not Want To Forget Someone..(Is This Wrong To Be Doing?)...........................What Other Reason Would There Be?2)And Most Of The Time People Will Bring With Them... Flowers...Or Maybe Little Statues...To Leave There..(As A Way Of Saying... "I Havnt Forgotten You"...And "Ill Always Love You"
"Or... To Leave Something That Was From Them.... Probably At The Foundation Of The Monument... Or Head Stone ..........(Is This Wrong To Be Doing?)
3)And Lets Not Forget ...That We Have Monuments Erected To The Deceased...With Their Names...Date Of Birth.....Date Of Death...(Some... Even Have A Picture Of The Deceased On The Monument....And Why Are All These Things Done?...................So People.... Who Havnt Been There Before.... Can Find The Ones That Have Passed On That They Were Lookin For ....So They Can Stand There... And Remember Fond And Wonderful Memories Of That Person
(Is This Wrong To Be Doing?)
4)And What Do People Do Sometimes When They Are At A Gathering Somewhere..Or At Home?
Might It Be... That ...They May Start To Talk About Someone Who Is Deceased....And Then Others Might Join In With Their Recolle tions.......(Is This Wrong To Be Doing?)
5)And A Lot Of People ...If Not ...Most........Will Sometimes.... Pull The Weeds Up..... And Make Sure That The Grave Site Is Neat And Tidy Before They Leave
(Is This Wrong To Be Doing?)
If You Can
Please Answer All Five Of These If you Can................................................................................................. With Your Reasons.... If You Think..... That Any Of These..... Are Wrong To Be Doing
(Ill Give My Reasons As To Why Im Asked These Questions............. Later On)
(I Do Have My Reasons..... Of Why..... Id Like Your Imput)
Thank You To All Who Answer
Comments (32)
But I suppose others feel some kind of comfort in doing all these things you listed. Only funeral I did go too, was my Mom's when I was 10yrs old, that was enough to deter me from sentiments like that..Sorry
"I Can See... Where Going To Cemeteries"
"Would Be Something ...That You Dont Want To Do"................
"I Appreciate Your Thoughts"
"You Do Make Some Good Points Here".................
"I So Do... Like The Way.... You Set Your Ideas Out There"
"I Can Always Count On You Oney"
"For Explaining... Your Thoughts... So Clearly"...........................
"But Then Again..It Does Fit In"
"Im 4th Generation Oney... Of This Family"
"I Remember Sitting On My Great Grand Fathers Lap"...(He Was Around 89 Yrs Old Then)
(I Was 6)
"I Hate to Use This Word...But...I Sat There On His Lap"
"While He... "Rambled"... On And On... About I Dont Know What"
"I Can Still See Myself Lookin Up At Him"...(Theres A Black And White Picture That Was Taken)
"From Way Down There......... On His Lap"
(Oh... So Long ....A Time..... Ago............................
And as to your questions - no, of course it isn't wrong. No-one is truly dead until they are forgotten.
"I Appreciate The Way You Do Your Wording"
"Youre Very Good At Setting The Stage"
"For Your Final Line.... In Your Last Comment"
(That Is.............. "Saying It Like It Is")..........................
"Tells Us The True Life Story"
"That Skirts The Imagination"
"With A Few...From A Very Few ....Words"..........
"But You Were Nosey Enough To Look"
"Werent You?"...............................
5 News Bags On Line ....Right Now"...............
Yes I go to the cementary quite often.
Placing flowers,flags and talking to my deceased husband and daughter.
It is a quite place to be.
"So..Then Theres Nothing Wrong... In Remembering The Deceased?"
"And Theres Nothing Wrong In Talking About Them?"........
Sometimes you remember the great times you had with them.
"Is Because .....There Are Some People"
"Who Think People"
"Shouldnt Be Doing These Things"..............................
There is no special rule.
I care for those that have loss
"But What Isnt Nice Is"
"There Are Some People"
"Who Have To Tell You"
"That What Youre Doing..... Isnt Right"...........
Thank you for posting
As to have a second chance in life that is great makes your get a chance to change things.
Nam I respect that
Hope that serves your nerves G traveling woman
"Go Get Em Miss Cappy!"..("My Trusted Friend")
"Youre A Feisty One!!"......................
Well then how does one stand?
Your tryin too much to be perfect in your way
Get a grip your opinions do not matter just to have
you on here is destroying the main purpose
Ta ta
"But My Eyes Still See"........................
"Im Not Going To Win This One"
"My Father Always Told Me"
"To Never Argue With A Woman"
"You Wont Win!"............................................
...I`ll dissapear for now...