Your Reason?

There was a reason you joined this site. What was it? To find love? To find friendship? To just read blogs? everyone has a reason..............................what's yours?

For me, I joined after two years of being on my own, I felt I was ready to start meeting people again. I needed these years to gain control of "myself" again after 15 years of marriage. I didn't want to take any baggage into a new relationship if I was to find another one. Am I ready? I don't know, haven't had the honor of meeting anybody yet. So far all I have met is scammers lol. But that doesn't deter me because you can never have too many friends either.............................

Chrissy
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I joined to find love too and now it has evolved into reading the blogs and making friends so it is win win whaterever you desire teddybear
I guess mainly coz it was free... dunno

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Incu...haha, you said it first grin
I suppose we join hoping to meet a special kinda of person ......and in truth so many different people with so much outrageous thoughts makes it unique and all is free
Robby.. yea sorry I took your thunder man.. you said it more eloquently.. thumbs up
What a nice blog lovely lady handshake

My reason to join this site was for learning, and I did. wave
Incu - I'll let you off...lol laugh
Hahaha.. much obliged.. tip hat
I joined CS cause in searching for something on Google.com CS showed up and so I decided to check things out and that was in 2010.

Since that day not a day goes why when I don't ask myself of why I'm still here 7 years later.laugh laugh laugh
* still not entirely sure dunno but I'm closing in on the answer
Oh come on CC you know why we're all here.. its coz:

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Incub we are? Well I'll be.rolling on the floor laughing
Well.. at least that's what a wise man from NZ once said.. dunno


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I joined this site because I was hoping to REALLY connect with someone - make that loving connection. I feel like this is just like every other site - it seems like everyone hides behind their computer screens and are afraid of any type of REAL human connection.
I ask myself does anyone REALLY find love on any of these sites?? Has anyone met their true love here??
Incub I may regret asking this but just who could that man from NZ be anyway? laugh
I join because I have been lonely sense my other half graduated.
CC.. judging by your comment.. I think its safe to say you already know.. laugh
Pat that's harsh man.. laugh
Pat that is funny.rolling on the floor laughing
Hey. Many years searching. pretty picky. Very patient. vet by initial emails here, then videoskype. Average fewer then one meeting for over 100 such connections. But learning a lot and having fun. Bonne chance! Aa.
I joined one very lonely night after a few drinks, I've met some lovely men and some awful ones. 10 years on I've Moe or less given up the alcohol, given up on the dating and just read the blogs and forums.
Funny story -true story
Back then my country was under sanction so not much flow of information or chance to travel - I was searching on line ,how to connect my computer with the TV -most information were in English, my knowledge of English was very poor , so... I started typing -after checking in a dictionary the English word for connecting and boom Connecting singles came up ...I saw profiles of a bunch of Women and TA-DA ,8 Years later Im still here ...grin
I originally joined because I thought there may just be someone out there for me. A Soulmate, a long term relationship with some wonderful woman who would put a smile on my face and pep in my step. I have came to the conclusion that we get our kick at the can and that's it. I had a great relationship with the mother of my children while it lasted but There is no second chances at my age. I will not be in another meaningful relationship. I have put in my time on dating sites and this is not a spur of the moment conclusion. I am lucky enough to still have my children in my life and when they end up moving out and on with their own lives, I will be by myself.

I hear success stories from others and I congratulate them and encourage them to cherish this new relationship.
I seriously can't remember how I ended up on this site. I have to admit at first I just enjoyed looking at the girls and reading their profiles. That led to reading the blogs and forums. Many were interesting some made me a little angry and some made me laugh out load. There are some very witty people here and I'm hooked. I also like the gossip and the infighting. Trying to guess why some women and guys are saying cutting things directly at or using third parties to vent anger over past breakups or hidden agendas. It's like a soap opera and I enjoy the banter. The most important thing about this site is I met the most wonderful girl in the world. Her name is Mimi and she gave me a "rainbow." I am so very thankful for CS.
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