EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON

Have you ever been in a bad situation where everything in your life goes wrong & you just feel like giving up? Well this year I found my self in that situation where everything just went bad & then it got worse & worse. I had people telling me that everything happens for a reason & that sooner or later I would find out what it was.

Of course, as depressed as I could be, I doubted it. When it's YOU, the whole world can tell you it will get better, but you don't believe it till you see it with your own eyes.

So time went by & I kept on feeling the same way. Then one day I knew it in me what that reason was, why I had to go through all the things I did. It's part of growing up & learning to appreciating what you have every day; all those little things that we take for granted sometimes.

I feel that all the things that happened to me this year made me a stronger person than I was before. I appreciate all those little things that I took for granted before. I got to meet my real friends for the very first time; I know who my real friends are & those are the ones who stuck by me no matter what.

I know I'll have more bad times in my life, but next time someone say's "DON'T FORGET EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON", I'll know it's true. We all go through bad times in life, the important thing is to know that sooner or later that reason will come to you & when that happens you will find yourself better off than you did before.
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I agree 100%,but there is only so long to wait and find out the reason all these things are happening........then you just crack up,dont you think?Same trial,s day in day out,cant be good for the soul.In fact its soul destroying,annnnnnnnnd to refer to your other blog,i think when you are in this situation,you are inclined to ide in your comfort zone.So tell me now how you can grow???????Thanks.Mary.thumbs up
He is a mature man, he cannot grow anymore, I think he is 5'1. The only thing will grow is the boredom from his blogs.
Im with prestidigitator1 on this one, not that Ive ever read the whole of one of his blogs. "Everything happens for a reason"...?? No it doesnt, some good things happen to most people and some not so good things. There is no great force at work, its just called normal life. You deal with the bad things and move on.
i disagree with both of you. steveno writes positive blogs that make you think and feel good. i really don't understand this negativity and rudeness for a man writing from his heart. it's mean and not very nice. it seems possibly jealousy or personal .another beautiful writing steveno. take care .teddybear thumbs up angel wave
All successful men and women are highly disciplined in the important work that they do. All unsuccessful men and women are undisciplined and unable to control their behaviors and their appetites. And when you develop the same levels of high, personal discipline possessed by the most successful people in our society, you will very soon begin to achieve the same results that they do.
You say everything happens for a reason than can you please explain to me why or what is the reason that my husband had to die and leave me to face the world without him.I am a trained professional, having degrees etc, and yet I cannot understand the reason for this, he was not sick we had a good life and it was going to get better, we were moving to start another chapter of our lives together.

Somehow I dont beleive everything happens for a reason, if I did I would be able to explain to a mother why her child has been given a death sentence in the form of cancer, or that someone you love and had said goodbye to 6hours ago is now dead.

I have never taken life for granted, as I know how precious each day can be, we all go through some kind of heartache in our lives, with losses that can never be replaced. Yes life does go on, you who are left behind make the most of the time you have.

I beleive that the moment one passes from this world, another is born to replace the one that has passed, dejevue is what some call it when they feel that they have been or done it before.

Life is wonderful and precious, I have always and will always beleive dont expect to much, make every day count, and most of all never go to bed angry, and remember to say to your loved ones I LOVE YOU. I am so glad that they were the last words I said to my husband before he started that fatal journey.teddybear
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