The Enigma of Women
Although I adore women, they are an enigma, no guide books or code breaking machines are yet capable of deciphering or understanding what these beautiful creatures really want.An extensive search of the Internet and time spent correlating the results showed these are what women want in a man:-
Honesty, Understanding, caring, strength, compassion, security and Loyalty.
I think these would mean different things to different women and they still dont help without more information.
So let us men ask questions, and or let the women tell us what they really want.
As a vast majority of people on the blogs are around 50 or older, so have women's priorities changed?
I dont want sexist or stupid questions, might delete any of them!
My first questions:
What makes you feel special?
What are you really looking for? (not a glossy impossible match like some profiles)
Comments (63)
What am i looking for------ a peaceful but not boring life in a two-some or one-some, just sharing, equality, warmth two ways, oh and laughs of course.
takes a long time to understand someone when they have already lived a lot of years,
Have a good day map
What am I looking for. Well I think I'm looking for good times as the bad ones seems to come without looking for them
A surprise at times and sometimes, a very well-thought act that makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world....
Little unexpected surprises Noted
Once men know that, then they have to just find out what the individual woman wants.
When I am considering going into a relationship/in a relationship, I am always totally honest about what I want, what I can offer, what I can't offer, what is acceptable, what is unacceptable, etc.
Apart from what you mentioned above, I also need to have fun with the person. I want to laugh a lot and enjoy their company.
I would prefer if we have shared interests, at least some, so that we can do activities together.
I would prefer if they lived a healthy lifestyle as I don't think I could be with somebody who thought a gourmet meal was a Happy Meal.
I don't want somebody who is excessive in anything, whether it be drink, exercise, drugs, anything. A happy medium is what I want.
They have to be able to challenge me. I don't want somebody who bows down to everything I say or want.I don't want a doormat.
And challenge me intellectually as well.
I would prefer if they were good at the things that I am not good at, so we can compliment each other.
I want an equal partner that I can encourage to be a better person, and they encourage me to be a better person also.
You are an obviously strong minded and straight talking women.
When I get angry with them, he'd listen and then take my side
He asks about their well-being all the time. That shows he cares.
When I feel like I'm failing badly as a mom. he'd cheer me up....and I love him for that
Above statement meant for you
Art sounds like a wonderful man.
Hold on to him....
Would it not be an idea to order 3 banana splits, one each and then one more for you?
I don't understand women either Map tbh.
No, I was not upset. not at all!!!!
I just went to town to run an errand for my son
Yes, Ms Berrie, gonna hang on to my dear Art so tight that he could hardly breathe!
Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!!
Why Map, you have MiMi's best interest at heart
I do like you and I think you and Diova have the nicest hair around
Do you think she's upset with MiMi, Map?
They also want to know that they are loved for themselves as persons not just the physical, they want to feel they are special to a man, they want someone who is honest and not critical or judgemental...yes it can be a long list...is this not true of men as well? After this a blog on what men want...
Step 1: Look at the woman
Step 2: Get a glint going, but don't overdo it like you're Manuel out of Fawlty Towers or something
Look at woman..........check
Not like this