My Serentiy Prayer for the Blogs [if they are to survive]

Give us the strength to ignore people who offend others on their blogs.
The Courage and enlightenment to see they have problems.
The Wisdom to know that insults/arrogance
Come from a wounded spirit.
The hope that we can all gain insight into our own flaws

To Give us all a sense of Self Awareness
To not preach things we do not practice ourselves.
And to say 'Sorry' when we have hurt others here
And should they not accept it and continue to spew vitriol
Rise above them and simply do not go on their Blogs.

There is room enough for us all.
Believers, nonbelievers, people of all persuasions
Class, Religion, Educational level.

The good, the Bad , and the Ugly
All have a right to their Blog, their story
Who knows what lies beneath that anger?
The insults thrown at women serially[and towards men].

Give us the integrity not to gossip about those we do not like
There are two sides to every story.
And to realise that ALL people on here are not going to like us
And to accept that this is OK

To enjoy Diversity and differences of opinion on the Blogs
Without personal attack or going to the Mods.

Most importantly to know that people here have problems
economically, emotionally, physically and God knows what else
That they do not share, hence let's make allowances

Lets stop calling people 'old' or referring to women who have
bleached their hair or had Boob augmentation, it is crass/nasty
Do not give rudeness or ignorance the dignity of a reply

There are plenty of nice people here, with differing opinions
Thank our own, let them be.

For the sake of Peace, Fun, enjoyment of the Blogs.

~ There is room enough for us all ~
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Comments (34)

roll eyes roll eyes roll eyes doh doh doh
goldengloss
WOOPS blushing Typho 'SERENITY' and this applies to me, I am not preaching, this is for me too !!handshake
well just speak for yourself then gg roll eyes
goldengloss
Redex ~ Sorry this upset you. It was meant to uplift. wave
did not upset or uplift doh
goldengloss
REDEX ~ This was not supposed to come across as preaching. On retrospect, I should have put I, but
to deny there is a problem on C.S. is ot put ones head in the sand. Don't come on my blog, life it too short
to upset yourself. Take care.wine
Bnaughty
“Ezekiel 25:17. "The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness. For he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know I am Bnaughty when I lay my vengeance upon you." I been sayin' that shit for years. And if you ever heard it, it meant your a**. I never really questioned what it meant. I thought it was just a cold-blooded thing to say to a m**erf**ker before you popped a cap in his a**. But I saw some shit this mornin' made me think twice. Now I'm thinkin': it could mean you're the evil man. And I'm the righteous man. And Mr. .45 here, he's the shepherd protecting my righteous a** in the valley of darkness. Or it could be you're the righteous man and I'm the shepherd and it's the world that's evil and selfish. I'd like that. But that shit ain't the truth. The truth is you're the weak. And I'm the tyranny of evil men. But I'm tryin, GG. I'm tryin' real hard to be the shepherd.
I say again i am not upset delete me gg grin

By the way i never mentioned preaching and cs has always been cs things pass roll eyes

Have you nothing good to say about your day so far ????
goldengloss
REDEX ~ Gosh, you do seem irrate. I found a little Kitten this morning, dumped, in a bad way, am taking him to the Vet shortly. Pure black, I hope to keep him. It is a lovely day here, and I am relatively happy.
Despite the response to a purely well intentioned blog. thanks for comment. wine
good for you i hope little kitty is okay
bloodybrilliant
Oh dear, how thoughtful and sincere.

.....f i only did not read your abusive private mail.
Gypsytramp
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Bloody, I guess it's a case of "we teach what we need to learn"
goldengloss
BloodyBrilliant, I don't wish to discuss this on my Blog. I sent a private Mail to your boyfriend x , whatever. It was not abusive, what I received back was. It was regarding allegations that I had got you both 'kicked off' and you yourself accused me of doing so [see relevant blog] your friend really does not need you to fight his battles for him. He wrote me back a nasty email, in which he called me a liar, etc., but no worries, it is not the first time he has insulted me, or other women. You expect soriety when you kill an animal in an inhumane way, but to me, man or woman makes no difference, ~ The reply was nasty , and I lowered myself to reply to him and yes, I was justifiably angry at this arrogant man who seeks to hurt people.

Who writes blogs to cause discord and disharmony, a lot of people have been at the receiving end. I am sorry you cannot see this.

You have brought Dirty Linen on to a Blog that was supposed to be a nice one, but unfortunately , i had left C.S. but received an email and text, to tell me I was being 'attacked'
Gypsy, you really don't know the story, so please, you both are beginning to wolf pack.

I have left CS so say what you like about me. But,get your facts straight first regarding mail. The man you defend is well well capable of being obnoxious, mostly to women.
Gypsytramp
Okay, GG. Whatever you say....

roll eyes
Elegsabiff
I wouldn't fret GG - that's the thing about blogging, you state an opinion, and really it is an act of courage because you open yourself to the opinions of others. Blogs would be desperately boring if everyone agreed all the time. Embrace the conflict and enjoy the give and take? I far prefer direct attacks to vague chidings and enjoy a ding-dong, I very rarely get them on my own blogs moping
KNenagh
GG, a lot of people here are not worth to get excited about.

Take good care of yourself, that's the most important thing at the moment. hug bouquet
Bnaughty
Elegsabiff, I will ding dong with you now, let´s dance!! boxing boxing boxing
bloodybrilliant
Oldengross, we show our best in our privacy. Your dirty and abusive mail trully says about you. I could copy /paste and post your mail here..
But, a lot of people here are not worthy to get excited about. Good one Kneenagh.
Ccincy
Hi GG Obviously you meant well but sometimes good deeds seem to go unpunished.

I wish you well.wave
TWAS not mehe cheering cheering i always thought it was me she ran from grin something i said,
BUT behind the curtains a leetle play was in progress doh phew thank goodness it had been on my mind for ageswink

Now this time twas not me she is running fromwave wave wave

I just hate it when i cannot tell fact from fictionlaugh laugh laugh
goldengloss
You overestimate yourself Redex, and underestimate me. You have never 'run' me off the Blogs, I leave of my own accord, I not you have been put off the blogs numerous times over the years for your rudeness.

So No, in reply to your nasty comment, I never ran away from you. I don't run away from people. laugh
freehand
i don't know how this went so wrong dunno
goldengloss
Freehand, Not giving things the dignity of a reply is the right thing to do , but we are only human and sometimes when something is said that is not true. For instance that I ran away ~ I like to put things right. wave
ashlander
My guess was going prayer for prayer.his vs.hers.The unspoken is best left that way,time for me to move on from polarizing topics like religion.
Best Wishes.
goldengloss
KNenagh lovely to see you here, thanks for coming on and yes, I am looking after my health. I hope all well with you and welcome to Dublin next time your down . x
itchywitch
Glad to read your last comment GG because to run from the likes of redex would be a bit of a mysteryconfused

But to run from a witch...now that i would understand a whole lot more wink
goldengloss
Ashlander you make a very good point. Thanks thumbs up
goldengloss
Ccincy thanks for your reply. wine
goldengloss
Hi Itchy ~ great to see you. I guess you and a few others know me pretty well. I hope you enjoyed your break.

You are somebody here that I admire, Talk soon . thumbs up
goldengloss
Old . and Gross, this is the new name for 'Goldengloss' and I guess that says more about the person who called me that in an attempt to hurt/belittle me. Sad really.
itchywitch
wave GG
i go away for a few days and return to see sooooo many kissing the backsides of them they had been kicking... what goes on here a tall ... confused
bloodyawfull
Ah, dear Goldengross.That barbarian can't even spell. Forgive her.
goldengloss
Bloodyawful ~ You stay and do what you do best, defend the indefensible and try and get the heat away from the unhumane slaughter of an innocent animal. I would like to let that rest but hope [since I work in animal welfare] that instead of calling Women like me who look pretty good for my age 'Old and Gross'
That you will go and spend some time learning to kill/Slaughter an animal humanely, The Dept. of Agriculture near where you live will teach you, no problem.

It would be better for you too, you would not have to feel awful as you say you do. No more Bambi s dying in fear. Sorry for bringing this up again but I would hate to think that you don't go and learn to slaughter properly. Best of luck



thumbs up
goldengloss
Bloodyawful /Redex in the interest of peace, please stay off my blogs.
Bloodyawful, you are incapable of being logical when it comes to your lover boy, but believe you me he has been kicked off the blogs many many times for his rudeness and he wears it like a badge, then comes on crying with poems and music like a woman[in reprisal to me ] because I told him some home truths, and subject to lies I never used the F--k word, I don't use it...... not very manly for somebody who is a bully. I don't admire men who are womanish and bitchy, who get their kicks from discord on the blogs.... his attitude toward women in general and to other bloggers, many of whom take this treatment is beyond me. . you are both being watched by the Mods and it would be silly to take this further. Let it rest. I have forgotten it. Take care .
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