Women and validation

Most Men are better at rational thinking and controlling our emotions, because we don’t need validation or affection to go about our business, but Most women do

Most Women need validation on their looks, performance, weight and choices far more than men do, because men are much less emotional and control our thoughts better

Example – A woman suffering from PMT can be very irrational and snap at all around her or just do things that make no sense…This is not a bash when it is fact
Example – A woman seeking validation – Do I look fat in this(correct answer – no it fits you fine) true answer – Yes it looks awful on you
Example – A woman seeking validation – Does she look prettier than me(correct answer – Of course not, she’s not even in your league)Real answer – corr yeah I bet she’s a sex kitten for sure
Example – A woman seeking validation – Did you enjoy the sex?(correct answer – you wore me out and took me to heaven) Real answer – You need some lessons in pleasing a guy and keeping a guys interest up

The questions are asked, but they are asked to seek validation and not receive an honest answer, so you would find yourself in the dog house, if indeed you did not validate the question with the correct answer

What do others think about this subject of validation and the problems with not giving the correct answer


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Validation,is not about your looks-that's Vanity. Mirror,mirror on the wall.thumbs down
Seeking Validation can be about anything including looksprofessor Factwink
If I was writing about you tenner, then a little bell end, would indeed be the case grin
Most women are vain, because most wear makeup and makeup is used to enhance or cover up imperfectionswink
Paul...rolling on the floor laughing spoken like a Scorned lover,so you're vali dating.
You had a laugh writing it


I had a laugh not reading it grin
Molly, Would you not validate my blog thendetective laugh
That'd mean I'd have to read it roll eyes
Do you want me to lend you a pair of reading glassesnerd
She didn't withhold her disapproving comment -only her lurv.rolling on the floor laughing
I can validate your parking here-you'll be here awhile....waiting?
To think I promoted her blogthumbs down tongue
Read it...without your reading glasses nerd

I'm sure some are true of some women

However, your first example is just your need to use the term PMT
Molly, Women do suffer from PMT and that's another factwink

Why does the word PMT upset youdunno

It's natural for women to have PMT and they are made that way, so we can't change biologyprofessor
But what does it have to do with validation?
Insecurity and seeking validation go hand in hand, so a woman seeking validation, could be in an emotional state, because she is suffering from PMT or just insecure deep down, so validation is always needed professor
D, You are talking about manginas and masculine men don't need validation and are not insecure with themselveswink
I think, generally, women need it more in terms of her figure and attractiveness and men need more validation in the area of the bedroom
Molly, I woman needs to know her body well and what turns her on, so that when a man comes along, she can teach him to please her and he can teach her to please him, maybe you need a bit of practice if you feel that way about your previous lovers performanceswink
Since molly brought it up rolling on the floor laughing ..
If a guy bangs you at night,
then bangs you again in the morning
Is that validation?
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Ash, It means he is an early riserlaugh banana laugh
GT get any ..it's still early.coffee2
Me?

I neither need validation, nor date men who need it wink
Dani still awake?hug
Ash, I insist on 4 bangs on weekend nights professor


Ok, I usually make coffee before the 4th, he needs some sustenance at that stage cool
Ash, She's gone to get some practice inwink rolling on the floor laughing
Another question- a car park or a parking lot.Is there a difference?





You sure bring the women to the playground Freedom.rolling on the floor laughing
Hollow...? Shallow? Hollow Hal.hmmm
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Cach, I have to tell you women are far more in need of validation than men and all you have to do is look at advertising agencies, advertising makeup, clothing etc, with the selling point that those items will give someone validation and women spend a fortune on their outer layers, but some never have control over their inner layers, because they are made to be emotional and feminine professor
Ash, You can park your car in my drive and then it's safewink
Ash .....if you don´t know me by nowwwwwww
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Sorry Freedom hijack , I´ll back to you in my next comment
Its just a saying,something about having both oars in the water...rolling on the floor laughing hug
I could do with a picture of a beautiful lady with everything in the right and posing just for me wow

But I end up getting a picture of sleepy hollow instead

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Ash, I understood that last comment. I agree with you, 100%
I would call some men as well as women attention seekers.That's all over and out.laugh

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