Look with new eyes

You know, many years ago, I would be in a situation that made me angry or sad or judgmental towards others,or wondering "why is all this bad stuff happening to me ".
I couldn't get away from that bad aura that surrounded me.That terrible thing that followed me and tormented me with these poisonous emotions that was drowning me.Pulling me deeper and further into the abyss.
I took a day just for myself and racked my brain trying to find a reason for it....And then it hit me..some.things that we perceive to be bad isn't allways bad...infact in alot of cases a situation has two sides and you can go either way...(Example) A friend of mine had brought this person over to my apt.,he left by himself after being there for 5 minutes,left this person behind,she was confused,hurt ,angry and she didn't know what to do...I was feeling the same but I told myself "You can either be angry of the situation and let it ruin your night or have fun with it"...Her and I got along great, I made a friend, we laughed ,drank and played music all night..She's my friend to this day..So in retrospect what looked like a bad situation was turned around and now I look at every moment with new eyes.Not every bad situation can be turned around but those that can is really worth the effort. So
now I ask myself "What good can come out of this?.What can i learn from this?.How can i use this to help others?.

Alot of bad situations can be turned around and your life will be a happier one for it.
Life is way to short to waist your energy on bad emotions.