My Brother Died Yesterday

I'm not sure how to deal with it? Its so Sureal. We were never very close. its as if there was some kind of animosity or Jealousy he had towards me? It was always very unfortunate. Blood clot took him out at 60. I guess you never really know when its your time unless it terminal cancer? There was 7 of us, now there is 6..I hear death comes in 3s

Life is so Profound (Sigh)

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Sorry to hear of your loss. You never get over it, but you get used to it with time,
I'm very sorry to hear that, LRsad flower

It is very difficult to deal with a death of a sibling, whether you were close or not.

Just be kind to yourself, and allow yourself to go through all the emotions you will feel.
You will come out the other end hug
sad flower SO sorry to here that, no-one knows how to deal with the death of a close one, time give yourself time hug sad flower
Sorry for your losssad flower
So sorry for your loss, only you know how to deal with it your own way the pain never leaves you you just learn how to deal with it year on year.
Sorry to hear of the loss of your brother LR sad flower

A difficult time for you right now.

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Sorry for the loss my friend!

RIP
family is family none perfect sorry for your loss anyway
I am so sorry to read about your loss. I pray you learn to accept, and grieve, your own way, in your own time and don't be harsh on yourself. Your beloved brother is at rest now.rose
Love,

So sorry for your losssad flower

I don't know how to deal with death, it's forever, it leaves a big void inside us that we need to live with.
my uncle passed away months ago, he and my dad were very close, I'm still trying to cheer my dad up from time to time. Only in moments like this when we start to think deeply of life...it's so mysterious.
Forget the bad breeze between you and your brother , he is gone never to be seen again and I will say a prayer for you in your time of grief.
I remember the day I got the phone call, " your brother passed away ". Its been 10 years now, you don't ever get over it. Your lucky you have 5 still, I only had 1 Bro. I am sorry for your loss.... I hope it brings the rest of you closer together.
sigh life is very profound in it's joy and sorrow.rose
sad flower

sorry for your loss
death is random and can come at any time, we will always be caught feeling we had left on the wrong terms and i wish the last thing we said was i love you, what matters is that you did and if there is anything after this life then he will know that, forget the petty hates we all feel at one time or another, they are all connected to this angry world, love is inside and eternal, please forget the silly superstitions that people want to govern your life with, death does not come in any number he comes when he wants, bless you and i am sorry for your loss, Ferdilan.
Thank you all for you Solace and Condolences , Very much appreciated hug handshake wine

My grief must wait. I have the responsibility of my 88 year old mother and her loss and grief to Solace.
Sorry for your loss, L. Underscores the AA meeting wisdom of trying to make amends while one can. Gladly did so -well sort of, with our dad, whose issues hurt some, but who at his heart was not a bad person. His dad was not so nice---probably explains a lot. Aa.
LR,

Sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences!sad flower
Gosh Ranger so sorry to read you lost a brother sad flower

Understandable why you feel you must be there to help mother but find time to deal your loss also teddybear
Hello LR,handshake So sorry for your loss,crying , my condolences, there Bud,sad flower
So very sorry to hear your brother died.............you can never forget him but the hurt will become less.
Sure hope that you and your other brothers will become closer now.
It would make your mom happy too. handshake
LoveRanger: Sorry for your loss...and absolutely you never know. Despite the differences I would bet there was unconditional love. I believe when it comes to the big picture...family is truly all that matters.

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I'm sorry for your loss . I lost one of mine about 3 and a half yrs ago and still makes me sad when thinking of him . it hasn't lessened with time . though they say it will .....but it's is surreal.... coz it's not something you can ever imagine happening ...until it does and disbelief sets in and leaves you feeling lost and bewildered .. not knowing what to say or how to feel .
My condolences to you and yours .
sad flower
Lost my youngest brother 4 weeks ago, and another sisterinlaw last week. We start from a family of 15 (10 boys / 5 girls) their are 4 left and life goes on. Kid brother died with a smile on his face doing exercise and had a heart attack Semper FI Marine
Wow Namvet. Sounds like soon you'll all be extinct uh oh
My condolences Love. My brother passed away in 2000 at 44. We were very closed. I never will get over it. sad flower
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