don't go to dating sites If your not serious
Dating sites are for honesty and pen pal communications not profiling or spyware or porn etc.I find that many people are searching for their soul mate but they are only half way willing to commit to meeting a man.A good relationship comes from the heart and soul and takes time to establish.If you are not ready for that then why be on the site at all.I find there are many pretty women on the site but as a end result I only need one.so why does it take 1000's of honest communications to find a soulmate? I don't know! I reather have a spot where I could broadcast my whole life to the world than play little games or info tag forever.and why are people so afraid to meet?you all go out into public for shopping,work etc.anyway and don't often get mugged or abused doing that.so stop complaining about the bad times and truely find someone to build some good times with.a simple hello is a start.then after a good conversation weather 1 day or a year meet in a public place with an emergency phone.look at New York.lol afraid to say hi? YA GOT TO BE KIDDING.
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Why a thousand communications before finding the one?
Because you need many frogs first.
Apart from that...what comes to mind is the poem from Kipling "the thousandth man"
The thousandth man is worth seeking half your days...
But he's worth them all!
Don't worry...good things happen to those who wait.
But I noticed that people are more interested in a relationship rather than in other persons. They speak about love (which is a difficult thing) but they really need a companion. I apreciate more the women who have in this case a dog rather than a men.
I see this issue of searching a match and build a relationship like a psychological business. Since I have traveled many years in different location on the earth (many countries) I am aware and make clear difference between a relationship and a connection to another human being.
People have no idea what they lose. First is the connection ... and perhaps will be more or not .... when you start to search for a match ready for a relationship .... you decrease your level of connection to something very basic. You lose the high wawes of joy what humans may experiment.
You're looking for the site with only two members
"You and the girl that is serious about You"
Try apply some rationality to your argument.
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