GO TO YOUR ROOM AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU DONE

Have you ever been told this ? I haven't as a child punishment was at hand and not forgotten. My father died when I was 12 and I can remember to this day when I was spanked by him. We use to go hunting all the time and he was a great hunter, but I think he got me and hunting a little confused when he would spank me. I can see him now.

He would seek me out, and get me in his sight and set his scope so it would be a direct hit and then fire. yes he never missed his target. I have said many times in life that I remember my dads punishment but have always jokenly said my Mother beat me every day laugh just kidding about that.

I said all of this to say,,,What went wrong....Is this the day in time that now we are not punished, but sent to our room to think about what we did wrong.
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Do you think a fully-grown adult inflicting physical punishment on a small child is better than say, denying them usage of their phone/game/TV or not being allowed outside to play with their friends?
Hi Cc wave my parents never said it would hurt them more than me laugh

I am 63 and I guess old school. I work one day and it is in retail and I see the kids today and how they act as if no discipline.
Hi wen I'm 69 and worked in all kinds of occupations in order to support myself.

I'm old school too and I know to where you speak of how undisciplined some kids are.
Cc,, I really don't know what works anymore, or did anything works.

I remember my pastor saying once...you teach your kids to do right, to do wrong is already in them...laugh
@ 1to1to1 thumbs up I think so too
Being sent to one's room is not always a negative experience...as Leonardo Da Vincy said:" Small rooms or dwellings set the mind in the right path, large rooms cause it to go astray.." (meaning it causes the imagination to grow and imagination sets one free of all walls. Childhood demands imagination to live and not simply exist.
Kattie, thanks for the comment and I like what Da Vincy said. I believe it is very true that the imagination is so important to live and grow in live. but to sit in a room and think about what I did wrong, would that justify the wrong I know a lot of this would be what the wrong was but just saying.

thanks for comment
If my sons when young went to touch a fire when told NO then they would get a smack. Saved a burning never to be repeated. Phones and things were not around as punishment to stop.grin

I personnely think and did smack my sons for seriouse stuff, but like you wen stopped at a certain age when full understanding was with them.

Pocket money was stopped but not the jobs they had to do to even get that.

I remember one of my sons wanted long hair roll eyes i reluctantly told him yes but any misdomeanours i would cut it off laugh laugh surprise surprise he was good just until the fashion ran outlaugh laugh

Todays children (some--most) just seem even when very small just bad truly bad. Not chlds fault but parents. Maybe parents think talking to a 2 year old not to do something that is dangerouse worksroll eyes roll eyes
Maybe todays parents have not the time nor energy to correct kids, just buy expensive stuff hopping that will make them good kids. No time to sit and talkdunno

I am just glad my lads are men and shame i know but keep away from kids altogether if i can help
it.
Hi Redex hug love it all you just wrote, am thinking about your son he is very smart he stayed good till fashion ran out laugh

the end of your comment reminds me of what one of our first lady's said.....when I have a headacke I do as the label says on medicine bottle,,,,take two tablets and keep away from kids.....rolling on the floor laughing
Wen that son still has long hair no wow in a pony tail when he climbs, or at work roll eyes I did get to cut it oncegrin He must just like long hair I like mine short laugh laugh laugh
Redex lol when I was in my younger days I had long hair also you know the fad. my wife at the time had long beautiful black hair it even just shined, but one day she came home and it was cut short...I mean short... I about fell out could not believe she would do such a thing. short hair looks great on some women but in her case it did not work for me laugh
Dear Wen.

It's so nice to see you back in your old profile.

As for the punishment, I'm ok with that. Discipline as needed for learning. My parents were good disciplinarian but always made it a point for us to learn and bit to do the same mistakes.

It served us good. I applied the same discipline to my children and see them do the same thing.

The most important thing us our responsibility to raise loved and responsible children.

My parents did, we did it to my four children and my grand children are experiencing the same.

Needless to say my children are good and responsible members of our society. hug

I couldn't be more grateful.

Great blog Wen.
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