A silent swan song (not mine)
Yesterday someone I know committed suicide.Somehow I was not surprised, but it saddens me profoundly.
He was not a nice man, mostly rude and harsh, though he was never rude to me directly.
People were afraid to talk to him because they never knew how he could react. Sometimes he could burst into an anger attack, just because he woke up with the wrong foot.
I remember once I needed a favor from him. He waited for me to ask and then said: No. Pure and simple, no explanations.
He was not my friend. I wonder if he had any. He was a bitter, lonely man, the opposite of a pleasant person. Still, I cried for him, not because I will miss him, but because I can only slightly grasp how he felt and this is already a huge pain.
I remember someone here on the blogs who said that people who reject love are the ones who need it most. That was his case, he needed it desperately and pushed away every person who crossed his path.
He was utterly alone in a world full of people. No one listened to his swam song; it came out as a silent scream.
Oddly enough, he had a sheep as a pet, which kept his lawn short. Perhaps it noticed something, but sheep don't tell stories.
Today, I'm am his speaker for the dead, I hope he finally finds peace.
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Nevertheless, I wish he enjoyed his life, rather than waste it away.
Life is what we make of it. To me it is a wonderful, albeit temporary, existence. Carpe Diem !
What age was he?
That's irrelevant.
Hi Biff,
That's true, unless they wear a happy public persona, but those are even sadder inside.
Hi Jim,
Carpe diem is a good advice, but, unfortunately, a bit late for him. He was a very good professional. I believe that he left a good legacy behind.
Dead poet society is a wonderful movie, thanks for sharing the video.
Thanks, 1to1to1.
I feel sorry for your neighbor.
Probably it was a succession of many events that went wrong in his life and not just a single one.
Thanks, Johnny
That was beautiful.
Hi Itchy,
I'm sure he had his reasons to be how he was. I hope he finds peace at last. He was on his late 50s, still very young.
Thanks, Grouchy.
He had depression and was under treatment. Unfortunately, it was not enough to save his life.
Some people deny Jesus Christ. I don't because when I was at my wits end I turned to Christ and I spoke to Him!! What? Some people say? Well, if some people go to a psychiatrist they can definitely speak daily to the Savior and get worries off their chest.
It is good that you made an effort to talk to him. Even if only one time.
I've never said I expected an explanation from him. I've just stated he didn't provide any.
What I expected was also irrelevant.
Maybe you assume too much about people you don't know.
Thanks, Nonsmoker
Hi Raphael,
That's sad but true. This was not the first case I've seem in my life, unfortunately.
The world can be a cold place sometimes. Many people don't care about others, some care too much about money or appearances, and some just can't handle pain (self or from others). It's easier to pretend everything is just fine.
There is something I learned when I was the one in pain. When you're suffering on the inside and there is nothing physical about your pain, people can show compassion for a while, but after that you're on your own. No one cares anymore because there is nothing wrong with you they can see: no bleeding, no broken bones, nothing. People look at you and say: come on, react! As if you didn't want to!
I'm glad to know you found comfort in your faith.
Not all people share the same beliefs, though.
Regardless of faith, the world needs more love.
I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.
I believe you're right; they probably went through a similar process. It's so sad to end one's story this way. I hope they could have found peace in the end.
Sometimes silence speaks louder than words.
Sometimes silence is peace.
Sometimes silence is loneliness.
People used to remember only the good things about the person who is gone.
I tried to be fair. I'm not sure if I achieved that. It was only my perspective.
"It Shows Us All.....What...And Who... You Are"...........
...alwayes the ones left behind wondering why this happends...
...we all go there anyway, sooner or later...
...best we can wish for is to be remembered... for a while.... eighter or
Thanks for joining.
What you said left me with a sad feeling: would it be our ultimate end when we are no longer remembered?
I remember as a kid seeing abandoned graves and wondering: why no one tended that grave? Was all the family dead or people just stopped caring?