NEVER Say NEVER ~ I'M SO CONFUSED..He Wanted me & then Dismissed me !!!

Needed to share this - As I'm just so confused?

How could I have been so misguided...so stupid...
~ & Of course & Fortunately it is So...~ ...Nothing Worthwhile can be Pretended, Forced or Bought...


Why was I rejected? .... Was I unattractive...not his type...not even for a fling? Wink wink...

~ Not to bad mouth him - but I accepted that he wasn't at his best - Tall, dark & handsome -
and yet he was also overweight ...and his snoring would've made any girrll run for the hills...


Yet,...How could I have been so misguided??...I thought there was a potential for real chemistry?

I was also open minded and so accepting to just enjoying this time together - whatever that might or
might not have been...


Long story short - Met a 'seemingly' great Guy, & We spent a holiday together...
...He was into me as I was into him.

During our time together - out of nowhere he decided that there was just "no chemistry!!"
& his ego was big enough to 'tell me just that' !!!

Yikes!!!...imagine being on holiday with someone... & it comes down to him deciding for the both of us - that there was just no chemistry...??

Who said there was no chemistry? The truth of this would've naturally evolved ...as the days continued...
Had that been allowed ...

He seemingly also expected me to be "All over him" - yet not for one moment did he use his worldly charm & experience to 'turn me on"....

His self absorbed behaviour...resulted in me not being at ease to just be my spontaneous Self ....
Or to continue being attracted to him...to be able to be "All over him"...wink wink

He also didn't want to..." just sleep with me" - to have another notch on his well travelled belt of conquests...
"You see - he was more deeper than that...wink wink!!"...

From my own experiences & Goes without saying - 'A MAN knows just how to turn a woman on!!!"...

Which hot blooded guy wouldn't want some hot sex...besides us females need memories too?? wink wink

I thought we shared maturity to value our friendship and then go with the flow...
& How wrong I was...

That's why I say - "Never say Never.!!!"...I was 'dismissed ...as not even an option'...


I would've pursued an in-depth discussion to understand just what was going on with him...& Why
the hot and then the cold & distant behaviour?...

It was I that ended the holiday before it was to end...It was I that coldly greeted him and moved on...

And it is I - that still can't understand why he was like this to me...doh


teddybear

Comments (46)

nonsmoker
So how did everyone come to the conclusion he was narcissistic dunno

I'm glad we dont have trial by CS laugh

community service for kissing and telling.

25 to life for not liking someone.

Death row for never ringing or writing after a shag roll eyes doh
loulou77
Non

Too funny...laugh

Jail no but a good kick in the a**...yes...lol...roll eyes


wine
nonsmoker
Lou,
We all deserve one of those now and then wink bouquet
loulou77
Non

Kindness counts...hug


Perhaps that is the missing ingredient...

A kinder break up...wine
nonsmoker
Lou,
You could be right. comfort
moose52
sometimes in life we learn a lot more from our bad experiences than we do the good we get older and wiser
Alex7: "A Silver Lining ... "(meet us in the ecards)

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