Would You Date Yourself ?

We all have a list of "must-haves" for our future partner, some could have a long list, some have a short list and mostly the order is from the most important ones down to optional ones.

Now that I've thought about it, I've just realized that I don't really have a listdoh My past relationships were with men who are completely different from each other and the relationships also greatly differ from each other.

But let me try...my "must-haves" are...

manly, as in physically fit, wears himself well
confident, as in can take a decision and not a pushover
honest, as in what I see is what I get
sexy, as in great in bed
with good job and can afford to take me to nice places for dinner ( though I don't mind going dutch)
caring, as in knows how to make me feel loved when I feel like going nuts
faithful, as in only me and only me
thoughtful, as in full of little surprises that would brighten my day and night
( I'm sleepy and tired so this list could get revised when I'm wide awake)


optional:
funny ( I'm used to serious and grumpy men so it's optional)
house-trained ( good cook, can do laundry and pick up mess)
adventurous,
responsive

I'm sure I can come up with few other things later.

But now that I have my "must-haves" and standards, let me check just how many of them I can live up to
nerd giggle

I think I can live up to almost half of them so hell yeah I think I'm worth a try and date myself if I'm somebody elseyay

Stressful Thursday here...hope you all having a nice day/night heart wings

Comments (94)

nonsmoker
Sure,
So long as I don't have to kiss me. That's to Gay laugh
Maya74
I would never date myself.
mollybaby
I date myself a lot, and we always get on well, never fight, have a good time, like to go the same places, and a bit of craic, so yeah I would grin
Crazyheart38
Non,

yeah, me toolaugh but you can really date yourself, not just if your somebody else...all you need to do is spend quiet time with yourself and love yourselfcheers
Crazyheart38
Maya,

and why is that? How would your expect someone else to date you if you yourself don't even want to accept yourself?laugh
Crazyheart38
Molly,

so do you also talk to yourself when you're dating in public places?laugh I so hope you're not touching each other in public places too!laugh
TokyoRogue
Date myself?
f*ck, which one?
Cachuchi
CH ...we will never fight for a man lol! your "must haves" and mine could get in the same room taking opposite directions rolling on the floor laughing

I would date half of me....Boobs are not my thing tongue
Crazyheart38
Tokyo,

which one is your favorite and attracts you most?laugh
Crazyheart38
Chuchi,

sounds good...let me see your list first!laugh
TokyoRogue
which one is your favorite and attracts you most;/quote]

The quiet sensitive one, but he doesn't get let out much.
Cachuchi
Ha! that´s confidential information my dear but I could write one specially for you right now wine
mollybaby
Crazy, in a good relationship, words need not be spoken out loud grin

And I wouldn't be into public demonstrations of affection with myself or anybody else laugh

But I would like a more physically stronger version of me. And one that would occasionally say, 'do we really need another pair of shoes? '

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Crazyheart38
Tokyo,

If you date your quiet sensitive self, I don't think there will be lots of fun talks...must be all action and thrill!laugh
Maya74
@Crazyheart38

To be honest, I always wonder why anyone would want to date me, because I would never choose someone like me. laugh But, people have all sorts of taste and preferences, so... batting I make sure that they are well-informed about me and if they are still interested - OK. purple heart
Crazyheart38
Chuchi,

yes, pleaseyay
Crazyheart38
Molly,

sound like a very serious quiet relationship you have therelaugh

as for the shoes issue.., I think we share thatdoh My ex-husband used to love buying me shoes, in few occasions, we both came home and brought shoes for me...same color - red!laugh he almost had a fit at one timedoh
Crazyheart38
Maya,

me too, I asked them a few times why they wanted to date me,...what is it that they want from me...seems that the things I don't like about myself are the things that attract themlaugh
nonsmoker
CH,
I have always been a believer in enjoying my own company. wine
Maya74
Crazyheart38, that's sometimes really true. smile
mollybaby
Crazy, I'm sure I had a blog on this subject sometime last year. I must search for it and see would you have dated yourself then laugh
Crazyheart38
Non,

I envy you....I can only spend few waking hours with myself , I have to go out see places and people or get busylaugh
Crazyheart38
Maya,

yes...and it does confuse me when he say he loves everything about me including the bad and crazy part, I would never date the crazy me, she's so crazy and can't be trusteddoh laugh
Cachuchi
Excuse me a sec CH please, I want to share something with Molly ;)

Molly, have a look at this, I think you´ll find it interesting grin


Thank you for your attention ...now move on please super
Cachuchi
Who is gonna quote Oscar today???? grin
Crazyheart38
Molly,

I can't remember but please refresh memory...lately I've been taking a u-turn and have proven my some of my previous blogs to be untrue or misinformed ?laugh
mollybaby
mollybaby
“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.” Oscar Wilde


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Crazyheart38
Chuchi,

I've just read the first two paragraph, interesting read...will read more when I'm home...about to leave office, be right backlaugh
Crazyheart38
Molly,

You know I don't venture in the forums...I did once, i thought I could hide from the bloggers...those who jump in my thread were bloggers!doh never tried it againlaugh
mollybaby
Cach, when I was little, I wanted nothing more than to be a boy! I hated playing with dolls and other 'girl' toys. I was a pure tomboy laugh
TokyoRogue
This answers so much.
mollybaby
Ah, but then I grew up wink
Cachuchi
That´s why I thought about you when I started to read it, Matilda grin ...I remembered you said that days go somewhere here ...but besides that it´s an interesting read, hope you like it too CH

I´m so bored about all that thing about female & male brains .... cool
mollybaby
Cach, I think that male/female brain thing is passé now. There are as many women studying mathematics and other sciences as men now, and doing just ad well.

I do think there is a difference in the way men and women perceive things often. But that doesn't make one better than the other, just different.

And difference is what makes the world interesting.
Grouchyoldfart
I think that the only " date " I would put on me is an expiration date ! ! !

PS: Just to hedge my bets, I'd make it a long way into the future .
Crazyheart38
Tokyo,

would like to know more about your quiet sensitive side...when you're done with him, would love to have my turnlaugh
Crazyheart38
Chuchi,

I never really put much thought about male and female brains, it;s all the same brain in my opinion, we simply differ in the way we think , feel , perceive things and many factors influences that...cheers
Crazyheart38
Grouchy,

why are you so hard on yourself?!laugh Many will have youscold
viking67
Date Yourself?
by Ariel28SOFIA, Sofiya Bulgaria Jun 5, 2012 4,784 Views 214 Comments
I don't think so...

What about you?

Let's try to see ourselves from the point of view of the opposite sex...

Would you see yourselves as desirable and attractive?

What would you like and what not?

What would be your advice to yourself in purpose to be more liked?

What would be your advice to the opposite sex regarding the way they approach and treat you?


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