When you are expected to pay for lunch or dinner on the first date offline. Online dating No.2



Below follows, online conversation as part of online dating part no. 2,

M: Be careful with eating if you don’t have way to spend all that food.

C: Never had a problem with my weight

M: Excellent
M: I have problem only if have dinner every night and not have sexually activity...
So if you came and want that I cook you, then you know what I want also evry night ??

C: Yes, pay for the dinner you cooked for me through sex

M: No like that
Just with good atmosphere and great meal normal is to finish good night with passion

Comments (45)

Stargazer111
@ Pat,

Hahaha rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Why don't you go on foot so you would not need money for petrol or, cook at home so , nobody would have to buy another KFC.

Too much reference to junk food , what happened to healthy food and eating?. confused
KNenagh
Over 100 emails - some people are good at keeping a straight face to get into someone's knickers. dunno

This is simply part of dating, I have given my phone number to guys that seemed ok when talking to on a night out and the texts I had in the morning were completely unacceptable to me (I don't give out my phone number just to everyone btw). That's simply the way it is and you most likely will encounter this repeatedly (I have).

People want what they want and you won't be able to change their behaviour. All you can do is look after yourself, block them and don't let it get you down. handshake
Stargazer111
@ KN wave ,

Thank you once again for you wise words in your message that I did have in mind all this time as well as to say that these are very much appreciated(wise words).

I can see that your profile is hidden and you are off line so may be you will read this when you read this when you return you may not. However, it's always a pleasure to have a sensible, logical human being passing by this site and making valuable, full of context , logic and sensibility comments each time.

110 messages precisely the number of "more than 100 messages/e-mails exchanged" then and "some people are good at keeping a straight face to get into someone's knickers" or whatever other ill or malicious intention or purpose they may have definitely much longer than this.

I agree that , I "can't change how others behaviour" but, as you said "can block out" which is exactly what I've straight after the specific incident.

Thanks hug
Krinka
@Stargazer111

I read this dialogue 10 times and - it seems that my brain doesn't work well today laugh , but who is the one who said: ''Yes, pay for the dinner you cooked for me through sex''? You? Or him? Because if it's you - why did you reply that way? The man obviously joked. It was a little rough joke and I wouldn't continue chatting in that direction, but why did you understand it the way you did? If that was his reply - then - the man is too serious for this type of flirting online, yet strange. I don't know any man who would say something like that...

I'm confused. laugh
Nice. Lady brings the ring. I'll pay for the nosh. Aa-V.
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