Bad Experiences With Men
My jaw wants to unhook when I listen to what some women have to say about their close encounters of the third kind with men. It crossed my mind that some of these women are just out to make men appear as evil monsters but I’m more than prepared to concede that at least some women may have had some really terrible experiences with men.
But all this makes we wonder with exactly what kind of men you are involved with? In all fairness, if you date an undesired character, you must expect to be treated in kind. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t say he has the right to misbehave because he is what he is but you cannot cultivate weeds and expect to pick peaches from it.
If a friend arranged a blind date and he turns out to be weird, kick your friend’s arse. You have been sold out. Otherwise you must take at least some of the blame – even if just for your inability to spot a bad character for they are not that difficult to recognize. They all carry a lot of baggage and it wells up soon enough in conversation. And if you get into it, knowing that you’re dealing with a dubious character, don’t complain about it afterwards because it was your choice to be with such a man.
I have seen it countless times that a woman who comes out of an abusive relationship, just hook up with another bad egg the next time. They find calm relationships dull. Harsh as this may sound, some women are attracted to ruffians and I think they want to be mistreated. I don’t know if they crave for the excitement or the sympathy but they normally get both.
I have also been had by one or two women but they were few and far between. The majority of women are normal and rational. Just like that there are many good men out there but the onus is on you to separate the dregs from the wine. If you pick one loose cannon, we can call it a mistake; it can happen to anybody. More than that, it starts looking like a trend. Remember, nobody can force you to date anybody. It’s your own choice. We cannot always blame others for our own bad choices.
Relax! It is Friday.
Comments (88)
It appears that we have agreed to disagree. I find your remark unfounded and uncalled for. Your reference to Ernst Roehm is not only out of context but distasteful.
If you don't like the blog, you're welcome to say so. However, your remark demonstrates a dislike towards my person and tries to tag me with unfavorable attributes which I don't think is in the spirit of blogging.
What was that all about?
Had a good evening?
Nothing much. Just a personal disagreement.
You must read a few blogs.
I think you are making headlines again.
Hmm, saw it but it's probably a typo.
Anyway I have a few things to do. I'll catch you later.
You may cancel my previous comment.
I can say I told you but I won't. The blogs are dead on a Saturday morning and if anybody wants to stir, it will be when the blogs are busy. Well, that's my line of thinking anyway. When you stir you need an audience otherwise there is no purpose in it.
And I think it is how we allow men to treat us at the end of the day. Showing them the door is always an option freely available.
I haven't read comments. May be someone already mentioned this.
Enjoy your weekend!