Valentine's Fight
My boyfriend and I had a petty fight on Valentine's day. And haven't talked since. I don't know how it became a fight actually. I told him I was kind of disappointed about the day, he told me "thank you for ruining Valentine's."I got speechless. I didnt know what yo say because I suddenly got frustrated. It probably was fault for expecting something. I know that he has a lot on his plate right now. But I wasn't expecting anything elaborate. He knows me and that I like simple things. Come on.. I'm still a girl. I want something special on a special day. Not just a distracted "happy valentines day baby" reply.
What hurts me more is that he's ignoring me now. Wth! What is ignoring ech other for days going to resolve? And now, here I am, complaining about it here because I can't rant about it on social media, because my family follows me there abd they're nosy. And I'm oceans away from my friends. Or booze!
Some strawberry Ice cream for me please!
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I hope everything works out
@pat, your suggestions are dark and really twisty.
It seems that in this story he is a " drama queen"on that day,, maybe he had emotional crisis, maybe not.... my advise think carefully about what You want: you want him to impress your family etc.. But you don't know how to deal with him and his emotions.. first and only boyfriend- it's great, I have many friends who are together for more than 30-40+ years since college or even high school.. arguments will always be in relationships.. What matters most is how quick you will bounce back to normal.. use this time of your break to listen to your not only heart but mind as well.. if He is the one you really want,, or maybe you want Him to meet Your expectations of a perfect partner and he is not really fitting in that suit..
And don't worry,, whatever will happen - will happen.. and it will be for the best
What if your boyfriend bought for you a diamond ring on Valentine's day that after you finished off with him and moved on to the next man in your life, you could sell and, make good money out of it?
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And, does speciality and your boyfriend doing "something special" for you depends on the economical value and price of what he would have done for you?.
If yes, what is the minimum price and economical value of what your boyfriend could or would do for you, can accept?.
The above is totally unjustified and only highlights your own prejudice toward the OP. The fact that your comment is in the form of a series of questions gives you plausible deniability but doesn't make it benign.