Just some questions not condoning not accusing Just asking ?

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I see two guys off this site whos names are being dragged trough the mud at the moment.
What exactly are they being accused off. Knowing each other in real life. ??
Talking online to the same person.??
Was she not talking back to them at the same time. ??
Even if she didn't know at the time that they knew each other.
All that proves is that she thought she was playing them.

How exactly is this a scam. ??

Did they send d*ck picks?
Did they ask you to send them Naked vids or Images. ?
Did they ask for Money. ?

Because if the whole premise of naming and shaming them in this manner,
Is that "they both fancied the same woman"
then I think its the blogger that is the Sentimental scammer.
Playing on the fact that the sentiment of being somehow victim when involved in a very low level
Ménage à trois Will ingratiate her into the confines of the CS populous.

For the Theologians, Being Without sin you can Cast the first stone.
For the moralist how quickly we can forget playing in the field of our own ignorance.

For the overly dramitic.
Learn a lesson and move on.

Comments (76)

Non... You took the words out of my mouth! I was asking myself the same questions????confused
KNenagh
WTF? doh
I have Non answers.laugh

I only can say, I am a victim of my own choices and doings.

I can't blame anyone for every pain I put myself in, when I should have had the control of my heart and mind.

That's how I see things now. I did live almost fifty years to learn this though.
doh
Kalpataru
NonS, where have you been?
You should have posted this blog of yours much earlier before some started "fishing in the murky water". cowboy

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Well said, Non. handshake

I was beginning to think I was the only person uncomfortable with that public revenge blog.
Usha..thumbs up
Crunia
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This is what I call: common sense and integrity.
Molly...you know very well that you're not the ONLY one!

Just because we don't comment on the said blog doesn't mean we approve hey ? dunno

As you must know by now...I'm all for forgiveness and don't do revenge.

Also...there are always 2 sides of a story...even 3 if you count the Truth!
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.
Edmund Burke
Deedee123x
Well said.
I dont know one of these guys....and just about know the other...he has been nothing but a gentleman and always nice and kind.

No, Molly your not 'the only one' either..
This isnt a blog to show who is the most concerned...it is a blog to ask questions about choices.

Glad you raised those questions.
There are plenty who have chosen to report that blog...done on silence..not to seek a pat on the back.

Hope he returns as he is sorely missed and needed here.

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nonsmoker
Thanks for the comments people,
I am sure this blog will not be without it haters too but its just something I thought should be put out there for scrutinization.

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Thank you for pointing out to me the purpose of Non's blog, Dee
Deedee123x
Good Molly..because it seemed you missed to whole point..while busy patting yourself on the back...
So . . . I missed something I do believe
I was not patting myself on the back.

I was merely astonished at the lack of questioning being done about the blog in question.
Deedee123x
Maybe people dont want to feed her.
Maybe people want to protest by reporting her.
It shouldnt suggest theres no support.

Those who r friendly with this man are privately helping him through it too.

But i agree..the fact her blog/thread is still up..beggars belief
BerrySmoothie
Thank you Non.....bowing

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The fact that the blog is still up just confirms my suspensions hey? grin

I find it very strange that my pics get deleted when they're not to their liking (too dark..too light..too small...too far..and unclear) which is only a minor detail considering my age and that I'm not here for dating but for blogging.

But....when some bloggers expose others with videos etc..and go against the rules...this is acceptable?????devil

This site has gone absolutely crazy!!
And I thought they were trying to make some positive changes?
loulou77
Non

Naming the people in this situation is wrong...perhaps an anonomous blog would be a better way to purge the outrage or anger that she felt...being played...

I just logged on today because I finally have some time off from work but not expecting acusatory videos of persons known here on CS...uh oh

Sad really...
Upps!! Meant *suspissions*....not suspensions.
Crunia
@Dee, mods were busy this morning taking down Daniela´s pics ....no time to check those reports that blog had.

I guess it´s time to see a little ahead from our own noses and pay attention to what´s going on here.

Most of us "know" these guys. Some of us have their comments in our blogs. Some had public and private interaction with them. We are free to believe whatever we want, to support whatever we want, to add wood to evil´s fire (yeahhhh everybody noticed who and who didn´t do that!!!!) or ....to stay away from the drama showing respect and common sense.

In each word we write here, we´re showing who we are.
Tell me now you do not "know" people through their virtual behaviour! ha!

Time to think about folks.
Why the mystery about who you are talking about? Who is bashing whom?
Names are allowed, just not in the blog or forum titles.

The only person I see bashed a lot unfairly is Snookums. Harbal likes doing that. uh oh

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dunno

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Doesn't calling/exposing someone out on the internet occur a lot or is it all my imagination? Usually it's by someone of either gender cause they have been jilted by someone of the opposite sex.
Is this about the garage sale blog? confused
loulou77
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BerrySmoothie
I agree Lou.

There is no doubt mariamarcela has been hurt, but she would've been better served to have vented her frustrations anonymously(without names being mentioned).

I voiced my protest early in this woman's blog, but to no avail. It lacked support which is what was needed at the time. I have repeatedly reported said blogs Part 1 & 2, videos, poem and thread to the mods....but they have chosen to ignore which belies belief.
Controversy creates views. Views create advertising revenue.
Thanks, loulou... wave
Must be an occasion to build up viewership again.laugh laugh
BerrySmoothie
I wish it was a laughing matter Bear, but it hasn't been for these two men...sigh
loulou77
Berry

We cannot believe one persons account without asking questions...so a blog that just vents fustration without names being exposed is perfect...

Gal

Your welcome...

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Berriesmoothie my post had nothing to do with the two men.
Kalpataru
Ok, I tell you now, Madam! smitten

No, I do not "know" people through their virtual behaviour. I can only ASSUME I "know".

I know what I say but I never know how it's interpreted by them. I hear/read what they say/write but how I interpret it could be not what they mean.

Again. I can only ASSUME.. which could be "dangerous" sometimes. wink Ok.. ok.. it might be called intuition or instinct.. still it's ASSUMPTION.

And some think, even insist if you challenge them, that their assumptions are the true facts!

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Then why make rules Molly if people can do what they like?

Oh..hang on....SOME people get away with it ...while others don't.???dunno
Deedee123x
Crunia

Ive given up on who is real and who isnt.
Its not for me to decide.

I speak up when and where i want.
I have fun when and where i want.

But yes makes u wonder about the mods, when they find taking a pic down more important than the bashing, by name and videos, some men ...one of whom i am fond of and never caused me personally any doubt as to his character.
BerrySmoothie
Bear.....I don't find any of what's mentioned on this blog a laughing matter.
Johnny_Sparton
Non,

I am curious to as to what exactly they/he did wrong to her. I thought maybe the knowledge they or he was married was excluded, but one of the later comments stated that she knew they/he was married and stayed away.

Maybe she felt wronged on an emotional level.

dunno

There are some on here....and everywhere in the world...that could not care less about one's emotions.

If I am gathering from the blog you speak of, the relationship they had lasted over a year. I am curious as to why it lasted so long. Usually if something does not feel or seem right, it does not take that long to be identified. That is the time to stop it immediately.

One of the men she spoke of, if I recall correctly, was openly a flirt here on the blogs. I can imagine she probably noticed that about him. I am not sure of the timeline of their relationship, but if it was going on during the time of his open flirting, then that should not come as any surprise to her.

But, it seems as if her issue more lies with the friend. I am not sure I totally understand why he was even brought up in her blog. That does not make any sense at the moment.

At this moment, I am concluding that she wanted more from the relationship than what he was willing to offer. When the second man came into the picture is when the vision of their spawning relationship became something different than what she envisioned. She was already emotionally invested in the relationship...rightfully or wrongfully....to me, is the question. From her point of view, it was rightfully.

When it became wrongfully, is when things should have been stopped.

There should not be any deliberate actions taken to be setting somebody up for future humiliation.

In my opinion.
Berriesmoothie Again i say for the second and last time that I'm not making light of what happened to the two men in question.It's not in my nature to do so.

If you're trying to pick a fight with me sorry it's not going to work.

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