Protegaia

Protegaia

Mar 2018

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Psychological warfare!

Now, being on here for around a week, I had lots of traffic in my inbox. It is very long time ago that I participated on a dating site. First: compared to other dating sites, I find many people here on CS, which are nice, kind, genuine and authentic and to get on well with.

What does do surprise me though, is, that some folks are just getting their bully out and seem to have lost all their education and manners.

For me, it is no problem to deal with them, but it is quite amazing how many ridicule and disrespect other members.

I feel sorry for them, because it is a spineless attitude. It does let me think, in certain respects, of the phenomenon of "gaslighting"!

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-warning-signs-gaslighting

If one is aware and knows the signs of it, then it is much harder for the "gaslighters" to find their prey.

I´m wishing all of you a splendid day!

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Vierkaesehoch●Ocean Coast, Maine USA

Mar 23, 2018●682 Blogs●1,602 Comments

P. Ehrlich waehrt am laengsten. Aa-V.

Lukeon●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Mar 23, 2018●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Whats the rate these days for a good Soldat?

Johnny_Sparton●Williamston, Michigan USA

Mar 23, 2018●371 Blogs●7,936 Comments

Have a wonderful day yourself.

Pro....I suspect that some....if not all....people just want to be recognized and get attention. In essence, get some sort of feedback from others about their being. I would think it is just a typical human psychological need. If they cannot get it in a positive way, then negative it shall be.

bloodyawfull●by the river, Slavonia Croatia

Mar 23, 2018●3 Blogs●585 Comments

So many righteous blogging these days.
I'm having a bad conscience now.

goldengloss●Malahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Mar 23, 2018●1 Blogs●1,936 Comments

Protegaia Shonen Tag. I hope you enjoy being on the blogs and I have a feeling that you will meet somebody very quickly since you are young, grounded and pretty. Best of luck.

My_Lover●Springfield, Missouri USA

Mar 23, 2018●87 Comments

Quit smoking you Moron, you're killing the planet

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Mar 23, 2018●3,804 Comments

The men here are outstanding!

And the women here just don't seem to care.Can't get any better than that.
No huge turn over of men.
No jealously or squabbling.

* most here in blogland are over 40 years old.

Have fun! thanks for blogging.

Harbal●South Yorkshire, England UK

Mar 23, 2018●115 Blogs●2,153 Comments

Speaking as one of the spineless disrespecters of other site members: Some of them deserve it.

Crunia●Volcano Island, Canary Islands Spain

Mar 23, 2018●165 Comments

Your first blog and it seems you have the gift of opportunity lol!
Enjoy your time around Protegaia

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Mar 25, 2018●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

Yes, not much you can do about the negative behaviours of some of the members.

Stick with people that you can communicate and have positive experiences with.

miclee●Perla, North of the Straits of, Florida USA

Mar 25, 2018●344 Blogs●10,589 Comments

blogs

Here's the best piece of advice you'll ever get -
Believe without questioning EVERYthing Ashlander (Patti) tells you.
Such as...

"The men here are outstanding!"

Patti is the smartest woman in the world.

goldengloss●Malahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Mar 25, 2018●1 Blogs●1,936 Comments

MiClee ~ Of course, she is correct. Absolutely.

It would be also nice if our lovely new German Blogger replied or acknowledged our replies, just saying.
Happy Sunday all.

miclee●Perla, North of the Straits of, Florida USA

Mar 25, 2018●344 Blogs●10,589 Comments

Also - place complete trust in anything gg says.
It is absolute truth. Always.

Gg is another smartest woman in the world.

Bnaughty●Málaga, Andalusia Spain

Mar 25, 2018●17 Blogs●994 Comments

Is there a cult forming on the blogs? Let´s hope they don´t have weapons!

Harbal●South Yorkshire, England UK

Mar 25, 2018●115 Blogs●2,153 Comments

Protegaia, I am also an asset to CS, as you would have noticed for yourself had you had more time to discover me properly.

goldengloss●Malahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Mar 25, 2018●1 Blogs●1,936 Comments

Protegaia Many thanks for that. I did not know you had little time to come back on the blogs.
Keep up your blogs. Gute Nacht

Bearwoman●Northgate, Ohio USA

Mar 26, 2018●42 Blogs●1,700 Comments

Protegaia you said these words within your post: Quote? which are nice, kind, genuine and authentic and to get on well with.

@ yes right.The world wide web is cruel and nothing like real life.

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Mar 26, 2018●2,126 Comments

I am also an asset...ich auch!

Has du noch nicht meiner Blog gelesen?

My_Lover●Springfield, Missouri USA

Mar 26, 2018●87 Comments

Protogramma

You will never save the planet, but i'll let you save me from boredom

Do you have your Tree of life on your back

If not? you should get one

My_Lover●Springfield, Missouri USA

Mar 26, 2018●87 Comments

@Pat

ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA

Mar 27, 2018●3,804 Comments

Pat: I add bourbon to my top notch pepper steak!

ODEN1●Springfield, Illinois USA

Apr 14, 2018

Very true.

goldengloss●Malahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Apr 15, 2018●1 Blogs●1,936 Comments

Oden ~ Thanks, sounds like you experienced one.

Busteralec●CLEARWATER, Florida USA

Apr 26, 2018

its sad but very true.i thought i was the only one that reconized this.great post.have a great day

Keepers●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Apr 26, 2018●559 Comments

Good blog, I'd never heard of gaslighting before. And believe me on another site I was trolled relentlessly and hated for reasons beyond my control, mainly because one particular member couldn't take rejection. Then jealousy is right behind everything because I am a success while the others are just floating around with big mouths and no knowledge on to make a comfortable monthly living.

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