Emotional investment
Gosh how emotional investment be it online or up close and personal is measured in so many ways.To consider the pain of emotional investment in someone only to have it be dashed and crumbled by our object of affection.
To consider one's emotional investment in another can mean nothing that ultimately leaves us questioning our own personal worth motives and value.
To have our object of affection trample us discard us as waste.
We wonder why we place so much energy and effort in hoping they will change or see our way and noble intentions.
In the end we learn the energy and effort we put into convincing our object of affection leads to self discovery. We end up changing ourselves not the other person we like.
Hence, for an idea that most must consider that a woman hooks up with a man hoping he will change and a man hooks up with a woman hoping she wont.
Overall do consider the emotional investment you may have long distance or up close and ask yourself if it is real and worth the effort. If not, let it go for all that love and energy would be best served to yourself or with someone who will appreciate you.
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But in saying the above I'm strong in mind body soul I come as I am if that's not good enough that's not my problem.
Imagine the new world wouldn't have been discovered if a few did not step out of their comfort zone.
Considering Australia was a penal colony they let prisoners run the show.
Of which they had little choice. Hence, they played with the cards that were dealt and found their comfort zone and now they have beautiful cities.
They didn't let the prisoner/victim mentality dictate their destiny.
Now, where's that change button.
"If not, let it go for all that love and energy would be best served to yourself or with someone who will appreciate you"
And so did I !
Love will find you at the RIGHT time
Women today are enlightened and empowered to dance by themselves and found comfort in that.
They don't need a fool to give them self value. Not all the poetry and song in the world a man could write to show their passion and adoration phases them anymore though it seems.
I guess it's going to require much more than a song and dance to break through the walls of complacency to impress you women.
When we stop worrying and hoping for what we need or want it eventually comes to us in its right timing.
Or..... play about with the "object of your affection" with a narcissist behaviour.
And all the poems in the world are certainly not going to make up for it when you find out they were sent to various women, at the same time!!!!!!!
In conclusion..... before looking for someone, a certain amount of personal work has to be done and look within ourselves what barriers we have put in order to stop the flow of love, and also..... what excuses we invent why we cannot have it once we´ve found it!