if you had to choose -

this came up as a topic in class, and intrigued me.

If you had to choose between not being able to speak again

OR

not being able to stop yourself saying everything you thought

Which?

I'm getting used to not being able to speak here in Spain anyway. dunno and I could see myself getting into real trouble if I couldn't stop saying what I thought. Some of the things I think but don't say are fairly volatile laugh

But the freedom of being able to say everything because you had no choice, and people would know you had no choice - that freedom could be fun!
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succinctly put rolling on the floor laughing
But begs one more circle, what people thought I meant by what I said, especially when they think I meant to be deliberately rude sigh

No, not a circle. Lots of jagged edges.

uh oh
Sometimes words are not required grin
Is that not the difference between What I say, and What people actually understand?
rolling on the floor laughing so true

another debate was - speak every language in the world, or be the best in the world at one thing?

(it was, for once, a super-fun class!)
Elle I choose the latter.

I'd be in trouble and it's ok.cheers
oh what people actually understand can be so very much bigger and cause so very many problems frustrated
LJ, it does sound tempting laugh

Got stopped by the policia the other day for a breathalyser test and would it have helped or not to have blurted out
help what have I done wrong POLICE BRUTALITY
oh good you speak English
actually you are rather cute
blow into this? why? I haven't been drinking
nice smile!
see? see? no alcohol
let me go rozzer

etc laugh
I don't overthink what people choose to understand.

If I care about them, I make sure I clarify it to to them.

If I don't care about them, it doesn't matter to me.
I think I'd rather that I'd be misunderstood but say anything for the sake of saying than be mum and look like an idiot. Lol..well most times I'm an idiot anyways. banana
Molly, don't you have a running monologue in your head at times? Please don't say that's only me uh oh

Wish you'd give a monologue in a brief situation laugh
LJ bet I have more idiot moments than you

Sometimes on CS debates I do think we have all chosen the second option laugh the things I find myself saying, eish blushing
I just don't dwell on things

If the moment has passed, it ain't coming back
Like Molly says. I don't even attempt to explain if people misuderstand me unless it has something to do with my freedom or if they are loved ones.
talking about the moment itself.

Like you're in a pub, notice a bloke come in, do you not think hmm nice eyes too close together but good hair and lovely chin bit short but ...

No?
God of course!

But I am not going to go up to him and blurt it out laugh
Molly, that's exactly the choice. Blurt it out or not be able to talk at all laugh
Elle, you're so funny.

I don't size anybody up unless he looks like Alex Roe.cheers
Ok, back to the hypothetical situation

As 99% of my thoughts stay firmly as thoughts, then I would have to choose the first option.

But then there are ways of letting your feelings be known apart from words cool
Oppps, the involuntary night be a bit dangerous. But 50 percent at a time I say it involuntarily and trouble erupts. Living the wild side I call it.

Elle am I off topic yet?
Uou should watch his last movie Forever my girl. You like romance?
Molly, I would also choose the cautious option, relying on mime and the medium of dance to explain what I mean. Getting GOOD at that anyway rolling on the floor laughing
LJ back on topic laugh

I don't like romance as a spectator sport, enjoy it as an experience grin
Hi Biffy, I can't see many people choosing to not be able to speak again.

I tend to say what I think even if its muttered under my breath, for the most part it should be "stop, think, speak" but antecedents will often get in the way.
Map I agree. I like to think first and process it before blurting it out, but not all the time.
B - yup. I only open my mouth to change feet.
Hey Map!

ok I will grant you that you usually do say exactly what's on your mind handshake

but not everything

I mean we're talking a skype situation, say, and the other person comes on line and I'm thinking 'you're never 50 bud, and what, never heard of a hairbrush?' and out loud I'm saying 'hey, hi, nice to meet you' and trying not to ask 'is that a dead rat on the floor behind you?'

rolling on the floor laughing
Haha Map I didn't mean you and I HOPE you didn't mean me with that hair thing uh oh

But it would usually be true sigh

Once upon a time I had sleek smooth obedient hair, you know. Then I came to Spain. PHWOOM.
No Biffy, You always seem to have brushed your hair and added green specs of paint (spanish highlights?)
Spain isnt to blame for any hair related issues, try baby shampoo, it works for my long flowing locks.cheers
Tried baby shampoo, the haystack is currently being controlled (sort of) with tons of conditioner and a hot oil treatment after every wash. The green paint does weigh it down a bit, at least. blushing
talking of expectations, what I sort of hoped for was comments about the monologues that run through our heads behind the polite things we are saying

So that's not happening

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Map, we haven't chatted in ages, must have skype coffee together one of these days coffee
Say NOTHING smile

Talking is overrated anyway...
Hi Biff..
To me, that would depend on how the words "speak" and "not being able to stop" are defined. grin
Hi Buff, I am sure people don't understand me anyway I am always speaking with my foot in my mouth. laugh
That's why we have cars, on a bus or train you have to thoughtful of what you say to others uh oh in your car you can let rip with exactly what you think of others devil laugh
I'd go for the say everything! lol. What's a little (or a lot) more trouble than what my mouth already gets me into? rolling on the floor laughing
Say nothing and then I could learn how to tell people off in sign language and they wouldn't be the wiser.....laugh
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