Would you?
Would you tell a woman that you know has a boyfriend and you have heard her complain about him in the past..."If you are ever looking for a new man, I think you are a nice, responsible, pretty woman, and I am single."The old me would never want to interfere in anyone's relationship in any way. However, the way things are going in this world, I am starting to think that might be the only way of beginning a relationship.
Most of the single women I know, are single for a reason....and I don't want anything to do with that.
It is something else, I have not drank to get drunk for nearly a year now. But, I do still hang out at bars. It is beautiful living life sober. A lot of the people I know who use drugs and drink frequently are just bombarded with issues in their lives. legal...financial...relationships...personal....physical.....you name it, it is there.
Anyway, just a little side note there.
Of course, if I don't want to meet a lady who drinks or is on drugs, don't hang out at a bar. Well, I am perhaps stuck trying to pick up ladies who are in relationships otherwise...it would seem.
A friend of mine recently told me....you need to make yourself vulnerable to women. He said that, us men see it as being vulnerable, where women see it as having emotions. I wonder if he didn't read Daniel's blog?
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* Maybe you could ditch your picture with a woman,and even if Bert happened to be Roberta
the new Johnny has to be main attraction.
Otherwise the question you are proposing is a reflection of how
your potential lady might view things.
How can any woman interested in knowing you better get around these two people.( Old Johnny lifestyle).
Some of the input on profile reviews
are seriously great suggestions.
The local romance vs a relocator,
you have also only had a year of change under your belt.
You are essentially the new kid on
the block.Don't spend it in dark
bars.Also, with all the changes
happening simultaneously one
might need a temporary,more
dating or even platonic status to
start with.The settled in Johnny
could also be seeking out a less opportunistic woman or at least recognize and avoid Co-dependent women.You need time to know your strengths and her weaknesses.
(Equally yoked and sobriety based).
If all else fails you can travel to another
country and see how much they care
for Americans,then move back with
your new found perspective about
what they want from your lifestyle.
international networking and contract negotiating.M'be even a tax write off.
I missed that, there's nothing wrong with meeting friends in a pub if you don't drink. I do it, otherwise I wouldn't have any friends.
I am not suggesting you
platonically date...
the " fearless American gals"
in nursing homes.
On second thought a cute single
nurse there might find you,uh,
desperate,I mean,darn what is the
right word.Subliminal,no,oh well.
I'll always be your Number 2, your Plan B, Your Doormat, your Bottom of the Barrel? That is a wish that often comes true.
She in fact says it all and it's also my opinion on your situation Johnny.
Heck yes! Get in there and get some action, any way you can. After all, we all only live twice.
Now, I also want to add, you be the guy you are. Don't go changing and trying to be who you're not. Because you won't be happy trying to be someone else. You be yourself, and someday, maybe real soon, you will find a lady who likes you the way you are, and you'll like her the way she is.
We've all seen old friends who we thought needed to change something or another, only to find them later having great success with marriage, family and business... etc.
When you find the right love, the right happiness, your heart and thoughts will change somewhat anyways. Love and true happiness does that to people.
Don't worry, be happy, be your comfortable self and enjoy each day.
My Sister Always Say!
If A person Is Looking For A Men Or A Women; Put A Sign In The Yard!
Stating! Looking For A Men/Women.
And Under That! Add What Type of A Person That You Are Looking For......
To Me! Yes; To My Sister! No. She Feel That The Sign Should Go Directly In A Person Front Yard.
Candy is dandy, but liquor is quicker.
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Got dog!................................................
PS. Will Someone Delete My Laughing Before Johnny look At His Blog?....
It is far far better for a woman to be single, that to stay for fear of loneliness or being single, in a really bad relationship.
I also agree you need to start looking at women as people, prospective lovers yes, but also good friends.
p.s. believe it or not, many elderly people in homes fall in love and meet partners.
This also goes to Molly too...since you two are on the same page. It appears that I have a skewed perspective of females (all of them by the way...it would suggest anyway by Molly's response), when there is something baffling about them to me, that defy my logical understanding of them and when I try to get a better understanding?
The idea of a sign in the yard is not a bad idea. I once thought of making shirts to sell that advertise the person is single wearing it.
....maybe I should get a billboard made up Pepps? What would your sister say about that?
You wanna bet they are on CS too.
"All That Can Happen Is That"
"Youll Become The Bad Guy"
"After They Get Back Together"
"Listen To What You Hear...If You Must"
"But...Keep It There..... In Your Head".....................