Would you?
Would you tell a woman that you know has a boyfriend and you have heard her complain about him in the past..."If you are ever looking for a new man, I think you are a nice, responsible, pretty woman, and I am single."The old me would never want to interfere in anyone's relationship in any way. However, the way things are going in this world, I am starting to think that might be the only way of beginning a relationship.
Most of the single women I know, are single for a reason....and I don't want anything to do with that.
It is something else, I have not drank to get drunk for nearly a year now. But, I do still hang out at bars. It is beautiful living life sober. A lot of the people I know who use drugs and drink frequently are just bombarded with issues in their lives. legal...financial...relationships...personal....physical.....you name it, it is there.
Anyway, just a little side note there.
Of course, if I don't want to meet a lady who drinks or is on drugs, don't hang out at a bar. Well, I am perhaps stuck trying to pick up ladies who are in relationships otherwise...it would seem.
A friend of mine recently told me....you need to make yourself vulnerable to women. He said that, us men see it as being vulnerable, where women see it as having emotions. I wonder if he didn't read Daniel's blog?
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And yes, a busy day ahead.
When the sun shines and the days are long and balmy, I find it hard to stay indoors. The dogs get walked to death
i personally are single because i am searching for a decent man.. a man who can be honest and know what he wants and are ready to leave the laying field..
i would dont want a man who is has a girlfriend and are wining about him .. eventually he will be wining to another about me .. its a cycle for him..
so no way he has to be dedicated to our relation as much as i will be .
i believe if he wants to be with me he wil have to find himself single first then we can talk.. a winer will always be a winer..
i dont like a person who complain to others about his or her relationship in no way if you are not pleased with it ,, move on.. there are issues discuss it with each other..
you always says you heard or someone told you... so i ask what do you think for yourself?
if you listen to what people says you will never find a woman coz they will also be disapproving or approving who you be with..
The vlog format would be equally entertaining.Like Candid Camera or Punked,each shows a variety of reactions to a scenarios.
observation.I take notes too.
He asked.
Bar banter=the same conversation, over and over except the voices get louder and louder. there is nothing more torturous than being the only sober person in a bar
i once had a teacher who says .."if someone tells you he heard this or that .. ask him or her what is his intake on it.. he must have had something to say in the conversation..
now johnny has been listening to too much of a loud voices he need his head examine for trauma
relationship is a serious matter.. each of you put some trust in each other so whatever is happening should not be discuss in a bar.. a good trusted friend who can give good advise yes we all need that but a bar? he is being brainwashed
he need to get out of the pub he is being blindsided
" Bare minimum"
of a dollar exchanged.
they are looking for the next victim to fill the place that will soon be vacant.. a good woman or man doesnt do that .. they take the time out to unwind and find themselves before jumping in another unknown relationship .. after all thats the reason they having problems in the first place they just keep hopping any available rides
Now unless you're somewhere that justifies being masculine on-guard - like a prison, ghetto a council estate - it will be regarded as insecurity. Masculine front is relative to the battle and where there is no battle there's just you feeling like you're under attack when you're not. That's a sign of depression, low self-esteem, insecurity and the rest.
I think in this day and age...with things moving so quickly, information flowing, people widely connected with each other....the days of the old relationships are nearing an end. Maybe it is just getting old....but....if you are single today, looking, and middle aged (such as myself)...finding a long term partner will be much more difficult.
Regarding my blog...my gut says to ask her while my rational mind is saying no. That was the purpose of writing the blog in the first place. But, I see from the responses, my gut was wrong.
Yes....visuals are good way of learning....notes too for memory sake.
Good advice though.
I am not in a prison or anything of the like.
As far as your ending questions. I am a bit lost. But, I do get the message clearly in your first of the two.
Pssst Johnny, your gut is located further up your torso