The difficulty with finding someone online

Is it really that difficult? How many long-term relationships have formed due to this site? I have been here a few years now and I know of maybe 2 relationships that have formed. My friend who introduced me to this site found his wife on this site. And, Daniel. I didn't know him, he was sorta of leaving as I was getting on. But, I remember him posting a blog about becoming involved in a relationship. How many other do you know of?

How can one improve their chances?



My number one and two improvements seem to be a better profile and pictures of just me...and no females.


Maybe I should write a profile with a bunch of demands? For example, don't tell me I need a different profile. Or, shut your face about my pictures. rolling on the floor laughing tongue Okay, a little dramatic here at the end.

Just a little bored here tonight....isn't that something, as soon as I get done working for like 12 hours...the moment after I eat, I am bored. Sounds like I need a woman. :)

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i believe online relationship and LDR does work its what you are willing to put in.. a relationship or nothing will work if you dont work to make it work for you.. some peolpe believe starting something and leaving it by itself without putting in serious time and exercising patience it wil work itself out.. no way..

there will be bumps and bruises and even will run off track but getting up and moving forward ..instead of laying down feeling sorry for yourself .

nothing is perfect as we would like it to be .. what makes a relationship work is dedication.. those bumps and bruises in a relationship helps build it stronger.. some of the main issues people have is not saying they are sorry and each want to be the center of attention at all times instead of sharing the spotlight..when there is issues dont hid it in the closet discuss it..there are many issues to think about in online rlationships and LDR and if you cant deal with them that will destroy what you want to build ..
georgie39

Hail Yeah..........rolling on the floor laughing


And yes! Johnny is a great guy. I been knowing him for some years now. And he has been dealing with somethings in the pass. But! I do believe he will get back on track again. it just going to take sometime! wine
@Angel.. yes he just need some good advise and stop listening to those awful liquor mots lol..

and those women who is trying to get in his genes well his most masculine side to trap him in a bar life rolling on the floor laughing

u hear Johnny we have your back.. no hoes .. find a decent sensible woman they do existhead banger

ask Angel..u need a woman who supports you in all that you do and no hoes who will leave you at the drop of another bottle of wine .. or who will tell others the same she told you about her present man..remember if a woman leave her man for you then who knows she will leave you for another,, and hot out of the present mans bed at that.? be careful you may catch some fleasrolling on the floor laughing
georgie39

Some fleas or disease!.......conversing
Angel.. or both rolling on the floor laughing
georgie39

Hail Yeah! I Know Right...........conversing
Merc, I agree with you about the body language thing. I have never went out of my way to try and impress anyone before, I just try and do me. Maybe some approaches might help though. laugh
Molly, that is good to hear that you know of that have made connections using this site. There is then therefore hope being here. I suppose you are right about getting out and meeting people. The friend who recommended this site to me traveled to China to meet his future wife. thumbs up
Usha....you got to see two of my special demands already here. Don't be greedy now. laugh tongue
Poi,

There are a couple of good things about this site, that other sites I have been on are not.

First, like you mention about the options available and the confusion a lot of options bring. This site, for the most part, don't have the options some other dating sites have. There is another one I use to frequent considerably that had over a half million people logged on at pretty much any given moment. You can start a conversation with somebody there and shortly afterwards, it was done.

Second, this one has the blogs and forums...which I believe is a good way of expressing your personality and for also gauging other's personalities. The other dating site I was talking about had nothing....it was basically like making a cold call and it was difficult to form impressions.

Lastly, we have a broad group of people here from different regions of the world...all together like a somewhat happy family, for the most part. laugh

Okay...another vote from you for me to get out and about. thumbs up

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Sea, when you speak of the evil realm.....if being treated like a doormat counts from the woman you loved, then I would say yes. laugh
Thanks Pepps and Georgia for considering me a great guy. thumbs up

You know Pepps, Robert wanted to put me in a show once....or a movie twice or so times. Maybe he could pair me up with a single actress.....we could get married for a month and depart in separate ways. laugh Isn't that how Hollywood works?
Nice Robert....so, we do have hope. grin Let's keep on keeping on then. laugh I bet your next Birds and Wasps book would be a real lady thriller here online Robert. Be careful not to expose to much to bring the ladies to your knees though. drinking laugh


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Georgia...I hear you and Pepps.....no hoes.....good clean girl only. Like in Coming to America (the movie)...I need a good clean girl....like from a church. laugh

Okay.....the bars are not the greatest place, but there might be the stray one of two in there perhaps....keep an open mind.




BTW....no disrespect to any of the commenters......wave wave wave ...........
Johnny

roll eyes Please Dont trust Robert!

You will be right back at the squares again! Not square 1,2,3 or 4.
Georgia, I do agree....for the most part, those places are not a great place to find a woman. Perhaps on the rare occasion, a good woman might be found there.....of course, I think the same thing can be said about men at those places as well. But, when nothing else is really available.....beggars cannot be choosers.
and yes Johnny you are a great guy just need to find a good woman .. and as the saying goes
" once bitten twice shy" after being hurt is never easy to put yourself out again without thinking if its a mistake or having doubts around ever corner,, no one enjoys being crash and burnt but its a valid lesson. and we all face it at some point in life .. so i do understand where you at.. just need you to step away from that place now and try moving forward ,

what i have learnt in life is if you give your all its not appreciated as if you give just a part.. people tends to take advantage when they know they got you completely.. at least .. what i mean is love but love with reservation..

I am getting my anthrax kit out Georgia. There are many big events coming up in my area.

yes and your arrow dectector as well.. never know when cupid is gonna strike
Pepps, you keep showing him that cruel to be kind...and he will be putty in your hands....you know. comfort
that shaving creme Robert bought for you to use have me spellings off track too.. detector .. my correction on last comment lol
I sincerely appreciate the advice Georgia. That is what I have been seeing...when people give their all. I have a friend who is also single and has been in about 3 relationships in the last year or so. He says he gives his all and then it turns out that he experiences some sort of problem with being walked on. I will also pass along your advice to him as well. thumbs up I will be very mindful of what you say.

thank you.



Okay....I need to go now and get my day started.

Thank you all for the comments...fun....and company during my bored streak. I will respond to any further comments later....need to run now.

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Johnny

talk to hand WAIT! Hold On There.

Robert and I will never, ever joint Together.













troll Oh! Hail To The No,
laugh Georgia....Robert has that effect on people...even when he is not even here. laugh
That is what you say Pepps. tongue
I just want to add Johnny, never say never I know of a couple of people who met in clubs/bars and all are now married including a few friends of mine. They weren't even looking just went for a drink with friends....not all women who go to bars/clubs drink like a fish :) I don't drink at all and the women I talked about who got married they drink very little also they only go for the music. Just go out to places you enjoy don't go with the expectation of finding someone as such coz when you stop looking is when you will find her! Be patient and don't give up!
have a blessed day Johnny.. who knows u may just meet her today..
I guess it depends what you call long-term. I know of a couple of marriages, and several relationships which are ongoing and successful, all public knowledge. Perhaps you won't count them until they have racked up at least 10 years or more?

There are also at least ten that I know of where the relationship took at least for a while and lasted over a year, as opposed to fizzling out after a couple of meetings.

Surprised you've managed to miss the Mimi / Art one, though. But then perhaps that doesn't count yet, since it hasn't run into years and years.
Sweet, I 100% agree with everything you have said. When I was living in the city, I would go out to just genuinely enjoy the live music. I had a great time....by myself and all. :)


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Georgia, perhaps...I might meet her today. thumbs up
Legs......thanks for sharing. It lets it known that there is hope for all of us who are looking. thumbs up
Thank you April.wave
Mr Sparton. My last relationship was formed from CS. Lasted 12 months. I enjoyed the whole experience. But I'm fussy lol. Dont like lazy people lol. So she got booted out. I've made some amazing friends online too. Don't change your pics or profile stuff because it's you. I like to change my now time pics regulary just for fun. Then they'll see you for you. Just be a kind person whilst living your life and she will come. And when you least expect. Chin up dude. Be proud of you.
I was actually thinking about updating my pics anyway. They are a couple years old. Thank you though...and yes, very true too about being proud...or at minimum, okay with who you are. thumbs up

Thanks for sharing your relationship story.
Lol. Mr sparton. Same pic since I was here 15 months ago lol. I've had 7 since couple months back lol. Have fun with the pics. What do you think a lady you'd like to meet would like to see ? Ask a lady friend if having trouble.
Dae, I think they might want to see a wallet that is fairly hefty in thickness with a couple hundred dollar bills sticking out of it....with a lipstick kiss on the corner of one of them. laugh
Johnny your pics are COUPLE YEARS OLD???? doh

No no put new ones at least two or three months old.....otherwise its false advertising haha (unless you look the same)
Also fill in your partner match details Johnny. How are women supposed to know what you like? Reading the profile isn't enough.
Sweet, I pretty much look the same, maybe 20 pounds lighter. I am so desperate, I don't have any female preferences. laugh ....as long as her lungs can breath air. rolling on the floor laughing
A picture is not important because looks are not important. The connection and energy between the two makes it work or not. peace
Someone once told me it is mental, emotional, and physical that create attraction.dunno
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