The difficulty with finding someone online

Is it really that difficult? How many long-term relationships have formed due to this site? I have been here a few years now and I know of maybe 2 relationships that have formed. My friend who introduced me to this site found his wife on this site. And, Daniel. I didn't know him, he was sorta of leaving as I was getting on. But, I remember him posting a blog about becoming involved in a relationship. How many other do you know of?

How can one improve their chances?



My number one and two improvements seem to be a better profile and pictures of just me...and no females.


Maybe I should write a profile with a bunch of demands? For example, don't tell me I need a different profile. Or, shut your face about my pictures. rolling on the floor laughing tongue Okay, a little dramatic here at the end.

Just a little bored here tonight....isn't that something, as soon as I get done working for like 12 hours...the moment after I eat, I am bored. Sounds like I need a woman. :)

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Yup that is right but add energy to the list to make it complete. heart wings
will do Keeps. thumbs up
If you feel it, then it's right. Fear not.
One more point, all relationships require give and take. If a man wants a woman to stop something (and vise versa) they should feel free to say so, in order to see the importance to the other. They might be pleasantly surprised.
I disagree keepers looks are very important this why we have 2 eyes but only one brain
Call me shallow but if a person is not physically attractive no matter how much inner beauty they have I will vote with my feet

banana
Wave then you better not marry because you will divorce. No matter how beautiful a women is, that beauty cannot last with age. Then what do you do? Dump her for a younger model. No wonder women don't trust men, ever thought of that? sigh
I am proposing that inner beauty is more important than outer beauty over the long term. wine When it comes to relationships in my sphere short term doesn't exist, too much pain when it ends.crying
Sorry I will rephrase my comment

Every person has a preference to body size eye colour height etc etc

No one can change another's preference

So seeing an image of a person is important

As for mem not trusting women
That is only your opinion I can't see how you can speak for all women as you yourself have never married
When it comes to me personally I don't mind living alone. coffee
But I have lived with men, it's the same as marriage. I trusted them. wine
Then your comment about trust was just adding spice to the blog ?
I don't recall mentioning "trust"? Generally I trust the right people, as with everyone else. peace
Seriously ????




No wonder women don't trust men, ever thought of that? sigh

From your comment 5 mind ago

Whatever your on I want some

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Wave then you better not marry because you will divorce. No matter how beautiful a women is, that beauty cannot last with age. Then what do you do? Dump her for a younger model. No wonder women don't trust men, ever thought of that?

Are you referring to this comment? The most important message in that was not about trust. Whatever you are on I want some of that. laugh
You are too defensive to think clearly. laugh I don't know what I've done wrong but it really doesn't matter.
Read your comments perhaps let your brain catch up with your fingers before you push the blue submit comment button

What's written can't be unwritten
What's seen cant be unsentimental
And that is the other reason it doesn't work.

Generally only people with power and/or money feel sufficiently confident to date outside their own attractiveness range.

Most people stay within their own range, it works better as neither then feels threatened and/or jealous of undue attention the other may be getting.
He broke up because he listened to other people instead of trusting me. sigh Later he tried to rekindle the relationship but that's a long story, suffice to say it was too late, the pain had gone and fear stepped in its place.
His surname was Snodgrass, and that didn't bother me either Molly. wink
Men shouldn't throw the towel in just because women mock plastic dolls Johnny, are you serious? hug Men mock women for all kinds of things, it doesn't make her throw the towel in. She still loves them. It's just silly banter, did you notice MiMi has her plastic doll chosen for her Arty.
I don't get this, two people on this site this morning, telling us why it's bad to be here, and why we should leave? rolling on the floor laughing
Maybe their message is to the Americans only. Maybe they should just back out of everyone's lives. hijack No more from me sorry Johnny. peace
Good question. I am here because i know someone who her good husband here found!
Interesting to see the number of women to whom looks matter. (or so they say)... Can only deduce from that Mick Jagger is the most handsome guy on the planet. He's bedded more women than I've had breakfasts!: devil:
Ger, see what I said above abiut money/power being a good antidote to looks wink
Thanks all for the comments and the debates.

Rose, it is nice to see you online with us. thumbs up cswelcome

Doc....always a good read from you...putting it the way it is. thumbs up

I agree Molly, looks do matter....and also with your assessment of money and power as substitutes. (I wonder if men see women that way too?) ....for sure with the looks department, but what about money and power. dunno (not all men are superficial though)

Thanks Keeps....my comments on your doll blog were not particularly about your doll blog. laugh

Inthe.....always keeping them honest. grin

Ger....good observation....but Molly gave a good response to you (I believe)

wave .......
Thanks Keeps....my comments on your doll blog were not particularly about your doll blog.

So what were they about? dunno Not sure you'd go back to that blog I posted it here to help you feel better.

Anyway I'm up early and out early. wave
Regarding money, well I am so fortunate that money doesn't control my actions. Never has, never will. cheers
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