Women and men.....

Exploring differences. Nice place to begin is the obsession (sic) with "honesty" mentioned in so many profiles Among the ladies, vs. menfolk. Do your own survey, don't take my word for it. Now, I've done my share of being dishonest, before geting help learning how to let go and live better, as have male friends. Usually done to hide pecadillos---or worse, likewise with fears and insecurities, self image issues, and of course, being hurt. Often family of origin issues, denied and so never worked on. Abuse and not merely of substances. Lots more, but these top the list. Quite rare to see in mens' profiles, men saying, demanding, pleading,begging---for honesty in a lady. Striking difference, this. V-Aa.
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Women cant handle the truth ! and if you are honest, you will be judged,,, so.........frustrated
I checked.

Nope, i'm not looking for it.
The demands are overwhelmingly unattractive...
Projecting your fears or insecurities on people before you even met them is an instant turn off...
That's for women (mostly)...
Nothing special guy looking for nothing special girl...yes, every woman will be happy to be your Plain Jane...
pKrema ~ excellent reply, and true.wave
Biff, I think I did a blog about that a while ago laugh
depending on what truth you talking about.. there are the opposite of what really goes on that men so often use as the truth..
Biff ~ Most guys are ok, Just some of the profiles are abit Mr. Universe for me too perfect, if it sounds too good to be true....it usually is, and yes you have an honest open face... I will have to change my profile. Can be quiet in the morning, likes to listen to news, read newspaper...
Cranky when you talk when she's deep in to a series or film she likes.

Can be impulsive.... they'll run a mile.motorcycle Spends money on stupid things sometimes like antiques that are too big for cottage !!blushing
Focus on differences n u can cause division, focus on similarities n it can lead to unity.
Molly, you probably did, it is a fascinating subject laugh
I think you know after a few lines if this profile is real not made up .maybe im thick as the wall as mine is honest whats the point in lying ...
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