Sometimes
My late wife was a woman with an outlook on life that showed amazing insight.One time when I was looking to purchase a good used van for work after going through countless adds I was getting frustrated. I sat at my desk looking dismayed when Leah in her gentle way came over and was massaging my neck and said, Honey sometimes you have to dig a lot of coal to find a diamond." a week later I found the van I was looking for.
In a world where most people are looking for a quick result, her statement holds true. On dating sites it is easy to just give up. Each of us has our own desires. Whether it is basic or as off the wall as mine you may have to deal with a good number of people before you find what you are seeking. There will be many who will approach you some with sincere motives and others who will try to take you for what they can. But remember sometimes you have to dig a lot of coal to find a diamond.
Finding someone with the same interests and goals can take a while but in the end it is far better than settling for less than what you want.
Don't give up hope just keep digging
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Also, if you don’t encounter any ‘coal’, how would you then appreciate a ‘diamond’ when you finally found it?
To all the nice people here on the blogs and forums, I hope you’ll find your precious diamond soon
And to the not nice ones, you’ll get cubic zirconia
The Afrikaans people say, "My hart is my punt". Meaning my heart is the diamond. She had heart hope you find another companion in old age, if you are deserving you will find her.
It depends on how long the US Homeland Security wanna torture MiMi