a independent women would't have to do all this.. wouldn't men just love this ?
23 THINGS TO DO TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND UNDER THE CONTROL OF YOUR LOVE1. Call him by a pet name
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the
family.
3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.
4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you
behave that way that annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you
offend him, insist on his forgiveness,appreciate and kiss him when he does.
6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.
7. Honor his mother
8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be
sure that he will do same for your parents
9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when
he has no money at hand and never delay his food.
10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her.
11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when
he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.
12. Smile when you look at him and give him
occasional pecks when you are out socially.
13. Praise him before your children sometimes.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.
15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.
16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him
I love you.
18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any
other woman that day.
19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your
husband.
20. Give him a hug for no reason.
21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.
22. Always remember to pray for him.
23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening...
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i dont think you need to worry about her anytime soon.. she adores you. but just in case as you it will be here always .
I have noticed some of the things on that list you provide have stereotypical roles for the wife. However with society changing as it has, there are thing on there that most certainly roles could be shared between the husband and the wife. I believe a relationship should display mutual love and respect for the partners involved. The list you have here paints the picture that is just the woman who should provide the love and respect...but of course men have their soul, compassion, and appreciation to display as well.
I noticed how that is worded.
Georgie on the list is prayers which in addition to Johnny's comment I would agree that the two should both have soul and compassion and appreciate their union in order to serve God.
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There is more to their union than
pleasing themselves whether it's
material or physical.This draws the
equally yoked couple into a deeper
commitment.It is good for their family, friends,employers and community
in that these couples become involved
in and support many charities and
programs.They sustain the goodness
around them while their own love is magnified. It can be very powerful.
There are still a few of us that remember how strong our parents love and commitment were.There are still
a few who don't feel they were dragged
to church as children, and the healthy
environment of serving others brings
back fond memories of our neighbors.
If there was a list for keeping a happy marriage it would include acts of love
that are done selflessly.
Big hug for Johnny for his contribution
that acknowledges the wholesomeness
that men bring into our lives and family.
ideals of Art and Johnny ( jacuzzi).
Johnny and Art
and Johnny wouldnt want me in his Jacuzzi.. said am too short
no good today.
georgie I've witnessed some of what you posted which has been going on for some time.
But, I have seen so many women walking around now days with a look on their face of disgrace. It is like you can read their minds and get the impression that the world they live in has just disgraced them...nothing out there can please them. Without getting into detail of which particular race has that look on their face. They are even too good for themselves it would seem.
Since I somewhat quoted Jim Morrison before, it is only right that I quote Prince in one of his songs....something about mother/she is never satisfied.
its not the size that does it you know .. sometimes the best things comes in small package .. as long as it can hold up his reactions to my present activities i think it will work well.. and another thing.. if the receiver is unresponsive trying to please her is futile ..
men just need to spend more time with their women other than watching sports and sleeping to learn how to please us.. in other words use your upper brain instead the lower one .. that brain only good for a few minutes and it hibernates until next session
yes until it gets soft again ..
a man will do anything as long as it is hard u know or when he want it to feeling in the unknown ..
Luckily we don't live in the 1950s anymore