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As we continue to fight on our daily lives.
Do not fear of failure, but be terrified of regret. Giving up is the birth of regret??
priceless??

For so long I have been stressed, numb, no empathy and tonight I got free. I found out that I am human and not a beast. Even though we were both created on the sixth day.

I realized that dancing and enjoying the company of other single women can be so freeing. Knowing that I can go out and enjoy myself...without a man. Life is starting to take on a new meaning. Point is it is ok to be sixty six years old and single. Feels kinda good.

Remember To Improve Our Self Esteem!, We Have To Improve Our Self Image!
Smell Good Is Important! Special On The Dance Floor!
By Taking Often Showers ,Using Long Lasting Deodorant Not Just Underarms But Between Your Toes Too! After Every Shower!
Use Tea Tree Product In Extreme Cases.
Have A Special Shoes, Just To Go Out It Will Smell Fresh Every Time!
You Should Wear Clean Clothes After Every Shower!
Wash Your Clothes , With A Nice Detergent , and Softener!
Invest Your Money In Long Lasting Fragrances: Like Perfume Or Eau The Toilette, Channel Number5 Perfume, Channel Blue Perfume,Dior Sauvage Perfume, Giorgio Prejuro, Prada Hombre,Versace Dilan Blue.
Do Ask For Lay-bys At Queen Street Campbelltown NSW Chemist.
Go To Try Those Perfume and Eau The Toilette At Davies Jones In Campbelltown NSW Or Find A Place Near You!

Take PrideOf Your Self! It Will Make You Feel Confident And Happy!

By Balicia





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A man went to God and asked, “What is my value?”
God gave him one stone and said, “Find out the value of this stone, but don’t sell it.”
The man took the stone to an Orange Seller and asked him what it’s cost would be.
The Orange Seller saw the shiny stone and said, “You can take 12 oranges and give me the stone.”
The man apologized and said that the God has asked him not to sell it.
He went ahead and found a vegetable seller. “What could be the value of this stone?” he asked the vegetable seller. The seller saw the shiny stone and said, “Take one sack of potatoes and give me the stone.”
The man again apologized and said he can’t sell it.
Further ahead, he went into a jewellery shop and asked the value of the stone.
The jeweller saw the stone under a lens and said, “I’ll give you 50 Lakhs for this stone.” When the man shook his head, the jeweller said, “Alright, alright, take 2 crores, but give me the stone.”
The man explained that he can’t sell the stone. Further ahead, the man saw a precious stone’s shop and asked the seller the value of this stone.
When the precious stone’s seller saw the big ruby, he lay down a red cloth and put the ruby on it. Then he walked in circles around the ruby and bent down and touched his head in front of the ruby.
“From where did you bring this priceless ruby from?” he asked. “Even if I sell the whole world, and my life, I won’t be able to purchase this priceless stone.
Stunned and confused, the man returned to the God and told him what had happened. “Now tell me what is my value, God?

God said, “The answers you got from the Orange Seller, the Vegetable Seller, the Jeweller & the Precious Stone’s Seller explain the value of our life… You may be a precious stone, even priceless, but people may value you based on their level of information, their belief in you, their motive behind entertaining you, their ambition, and their risk taking ability. But don’t fear, you will surely find someone who will discern your true value.”

In the eyes of God you are very very precious. Respect yourself. You are Unique. No one can Replace you!

Respect yourself..  Don’t undermine yourself.



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When the virus occurred, I guess almost everyone of us must have been hit in one way or the other.
It struck me at least 3 times, one time I lost my breath for a full day, was not able to climb stairs or I thought I'd die soon.
Though I'm still here, as most of us are (with some exceptions, my elderly foster mum and dad, for instance) it seems, a lot has changed since then. Yes life just does not feel the same - what is back to normal?
On certain days, death might appear closer than life?
My bowels started to have allergic reaction to almost all food, except vegetables and fruits (and nuts - leaving me act like a squirrel when munching them).

At some stage, smell was gone. Being slightly autistic, the fact that I could not smell had significant impact on how I perceived the world around me.

Due to my lack of understanding and persistance, my life was off the hinges before 2020.

Being in isolation has tought me, there is not a single person who can be in charge of my life. I knew this before, but to some extent I had to be reminded again obviously.
If I want to live, I have to take over. Not depend, nor being in need on / of others.

Dramatic circumstances drew me back to prayer, and G'd.
Sad to acknowledge really, but this is the truth, in my case.

While living my life now, day by day, taking moments step by step learning to walk like a little one...

A few days ago I was walking home from work through rural area where I live. Alongside the road grow bushes of blackberries. Loads, of blackberries.
And suddenly I noticed, like, a light was switched on:
Every single one of those blackberries look a tiny bit different!

And, guess what? I also noticed, they all TASTE different, too.

I cannot recall ever having had this sensational taste before? It was like, another dimension?

So, my smell and taste are back, vaguely I remember a few weeks ago I asked G'd to heal things in our bodies as a general prayer, for all people.

How great, amazing this is, I cannot put this in words? What a Creator we have.

This whole thought and idea makes me humble and small, and yet He wants to share His greatness with us?

So the end of the story for the moment is this:
I can live my life, without G'd. Without acknowledging who He is, and what He has done and does and will do.

And end up in a pretty messed up position with myself.

If I choose to listen to Him, and acknowledge who He is... my blackberry G'd...


Disclaimer: this is a momentus sharing personal experience. And even though I write: 'we' feel free to think and believe differently. The faith has to come personally into one's life. There will always be some questions unanswered. x

People always insinuating negativity towards anything or anybody....
But no matter what you may go through...
Never let your situation or experience affect you or those around you negatively...
No matter how bad the circumstances...
Stay Positive...
Toast to Positivity...

Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your
feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately, it keeps
you stuck. The reality is that there is no one
correct path in life. Everyone has their own unique
journey.

A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you. And that’s okay. Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s just different. Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else. You’re a person all your own with a unique set of goals, obstacles, dreams, and needs. So stop comparing, and start living.

You may not have ended up where you intended to go. But trust, for once, that you have ended up where you needed to be. Trust that you are in the right place at the right time. Trust that your life is enough. Trust that you are enough... #Jt

My surname is registered as a domain name for awhile. So, what kind of web site do I build using it.

I did it. I distanced myself from the constant drama. The personal attacks, designed to cause trouble. It was the best thing I ever did. It cost me some friendships, I knew it would, but for the sake of my own health, I did it afterwards much lamenting , but being in their company was like walking on egg shells. I just can't do it anymore . I limit my time in their company, and avoid conversation. I share nothing with them, it took me years to finally give up, I tried and tried, not any more. Best thing I did. Amazing how the stress level dropped, and I feel no loss for that particular person.

Just a share of an interesting book.

LAW 1

NEVER OUTSHINE THE MASTER
JUDGMENT

Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to please and impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite—inspire fear and insecurity. Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power.

LAW 2

NEVER PUT TOO MUCH TRUST IN FRIENDS, LEARN HOW TO USE ENEMIES
JUDGMENT

Be wary of friends—they will betray you more quickly, for they are easily aroused to envy. They also become spoiled and tyrannical. But hire a former enemy and he will be more loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove. In fact, you have more to fear from friends than from enemies. If you have no enemies, find a way to make them.

LAW 3

CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS
JUDGMENT

Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late.

LAW 4
ALWAYS SAY LESS THAN NECESSARY

JUDGMENT

When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.

LAW 5
SO MUCH DEPENDS ON REPUTATION—GUARD IT WITH YOUR LIFE

JUDGMENT

Reputation is the cornerstone of power. Through reputation alone you can intimidate and win; once it slips, however, you are vulnerable, and will be attacked on all sides. Make your reputation unassailable. Always be alert to potential attacks and thwart them before they happen. Meanwhile, learn to destroy your enemies by opening holes in their own reputations. Then stand aside and let public opinion hang them.