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Beware of the evil forked toung ones that spit and laugh on your pain. I only no of one loathly creature who can slime, as near as my mistake!!!!!!!!!

My Friend of many years told me she liked at guy. Not only that after going out with him and others friends she even kissed him! She told me that he reacted pretty much surprised but didn't respond the kiss nor did he say anything after that. The days that followed he asked her about her past relationships, about what she likes and wants in a man. He did flirt with her A LOT! So we though WELL HE IS INTO YOU!

I told her that we should do a double date, my guy and I and her and him. Well he said yes, than no, then yes, then he didn't have money and he didn't have transportation.

1. I am totally AGAINST women having to be picking men up and paying on the first dates or so. Why? Well if he likes you enough he will find a way to make it happen.

2. I told her and this is key! If you like him in serious relationship, DO NOT SUGGEST friends with BENEFITS!!! Why? Well I don't want to insult anybody on here but Friends with Benefits its what I call an EASY MEAL. Not only that but the value you have on his eyes will be lowered. This is my Opinion just in Case.

Well she told me 3 days ago that they became friends with benefits. Didn't I say something about that? I asked her, who did the suggestion. She did. Why? Because she has had lots of bad relationships and she believes that starting with friends with benefits they will eventually become a relationship. Ok...so your telling me: you kissed him, you call him, you suggest being friends with benefits. What did he try to do? Nothing.

Well that clearly shows how HE ISN'T INTO YOU!

Not only that, when I asked her if she would be meeting other guys. She said no, she would be exclusive with him. And would he do the same? Awkward silence.

So I do believe there are things that you should and shouldn't do.

Don't make yourself so available, why? Because often enough men think that you will always be there no matter what and when you start meeting someone thats a turn off. Don't loose the mystery. Don't bend over backwards for him or her (if thats ur case. Why? Because you become like a magician, if he or she needs anything you will always be there to make it.
If you want something serious, DO NOT settle for less. Why? From my experience and what I've seen so far Friends With Benefits NEVER have a Relationship. Thats like going to Burger king, you go there, get warm food, eat and leave. You never STAY in Burger King. 1 call a day is good enough. Don't be calling him every 10 minutes, thats shows desperation. And trust me that is a HUGE TURN OFF. There's plenty of things I can write about, but I just want to mention a few I believe are important.

Call me old fashion but I do believe the man has to work to get the woman. After he has proven that he will do everything he can do be with you than you can show your appreciation by doings things for him. Boomerang Situation. Give and Get.

Well I hope this helps a bit. Take care all!

You know sometimes I wonder where I am going in life..I have a good job,the best parents anybody could ever ask for and great friends.But now that I am 40 I'm beginning to wonder if I will ever find my soulmate.Lord knows I have had chances in the past but being a very shy person I would always get cold feet whenever I would get near someone or an opportunity would present itself. I would not have the guts to ask because I was always so afraid of rejection.It also irks me to see other younger couples holding hands, kissing,embracing,etc and I ask myself ''why me'' because I feel I have a lot to offer a woman if given the chance.I really don't know which way to turn now.Do I continue with online dating sending out messages and ''hoping for the best'' or should I start frequenting bars?Most of my family and friends don't have any connections or single friends they could introduce me to.Sometimes I think it's just not fair the way certain people like myself are ignored while the others ''get the prize.''

...which is sweet and juicy
One bite you. One bite me.

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Seeing that I am about to celebrate another birthday on my own, I am flying to Brisbane and staying at the Treasury casino for the night in one of their fancy rooms.

Fun, frolicking and food. I can't wait!

I sat on top of a mountain today and meditated my heart away.
and on the way down i bought watermelon and jam from a man on the side of the road ,he had no front teeth,very Deliverance.I got home and dug my hands into the melon and gulped it up,mmmm it felt good ,mmm it tasted good.What an amazing thing a watermelon is.Try something new today it'll make ya feel good.

I know the answer to this will be pretty simple, its none of your business and you should be happy for them, but hear me out.

Okay, so again im ranting and i know i shouldn't and i know people get bored of this crap but i really do need to let it out good and proper this time!.

So, one of my good friends has just revealed to me she has a boyfriend and i was delighted for her as guys always gave her a hard time as she has a baby and shes 19, id say the delighted feeling lasted like a few seconds before she reveealed who her boyfriend was on facebook, and then the bitterness set in.

So i discover who her boyfriend was, and her guy and me went to college like 2/3 years ago and ive pretty much liked him since then, and i know people are gonna be like 'oh so you should of moved faster' and to be honest id dropped several hints and he gave me the come on several times unless it was a joke or whatever and his cousin was in the same class as me at the time and always told me he'd ask after me and how he'd never shut up about me and now look whats come of it, he's now porking my best mate and again im feeling bitter.

I just find it so frustrating that i liked that guy for god knows how long, i mean what has he possibly got in common with my friend..They dont even like the same music, and usually he'd show how much he approved of girls in their teens with kids and yet he's going out with one....It really is enough to send anyone stark raving mad!!.

And to top it all off, they've been seeing each other for 1 month. And i know it was probably none of my business then but i thought all good friends told each other everything, the amount of times i told her about my side of things, and now she does this to me..Hence the sarcastic title..Happy for you, not..

So all im doing now is putting a brave face on things, pretending im happy like everyone else when deep down inside i think its all wrong the two of them being together, call me jealous, call me b*tch..I dont care, i really dont..But i suppose theres not a lot i can do about it, just sit back and wait for it to work itself out..I probably know she'd be upset if it did end as i think she's really into him..I'll revel in the day, but thats just me being mean i guess..

Thanks for listening to me, once again haha.

- Brunetteteen18