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What you can count on...

The only thing that you can count on in this life is that you cannot count on anything in this life. You can't count on the weather. You can't count...
616120Apr 2017Apr 2017Apr 21

"You can tell it was written by a man..."

I wrote a little book entitled, "FINDING A MATE AFTER FIFTY" as kind of a guide as to what to expect when venturing out into the dating world again af...
589140Mar 2017Mar 2017Apr 21

RELATIVES - You don't get to choose them...

You don't really get to choose your relatives, but that is no reason to associate with them. Sometimes DNA explains a lot more than you might really...
89440Dec 2015Dec 2015Apr 20

Finding A Mate After 50

I wrote a short book about finding a mate after 50 and published it on Amazon Kindle under D. Leo Lund - Author, for my friends who might be in the ma...
1,044140Dec 2015Dec 2015Apr 20

When It's Good, It's Really Good....

Do you know when the one you are with is worth your time and effort? When it’s good, it’s really good, and when it’s bad… it’s terrific! Have you ev...
75660Feb 2012Feb 201222 hrs ago

Have You Ever?

Have you ever met someone that took your breath away? Someone that tied your tongue in knots? Someone that made your stomach get all messed up? Som...
1,427400Feb 2012Feb 201222 hrs ago

A Profound Discovery!

Ladies and Gentlemen, I have just made the most profound discovery… I am not the Center of the Universe, after all… What a wretched epiphany to have o...
80290Nov 2011Nov 201122 hrs ago

Did You Ever?

Did You ever have someone fall in love with you but you had no feelings for them? How did you handle it? How did they handle it? Ho...
923150Nov 2011Nov 201122 hrs ago

WHEN IT'S TIME FOR A CHANGE...

Sometimes, you get up in the morning, and you realize it is time for a change. It is time to move on…and this time you are going to do it differently...
78210Mar 2011Nov 2011Apr 20

Have You Ever Been Thrown Out...

Have you ever been thrown out? Was you surprised or did you see it coming? Did you land on your feet or did you fall flat on your face? I have...
902270Nov 2011Nov 201122 hrs ago

WHAT I LEARNED WHEN I WAS RIDING MY MOTORCYCLE...

Don’t you just love it when your riding along on a warm summer’s night, in your partner’s embrace, and she reaches under your clothes and starts to ge...
83350Mar 2011Nov 2011Apr 20

What's In It For Me...

I have found the one question in life that gets to the heart of making a decision about whether to get involved in any situation that presents itself...
75250Nov 2011Nov 2011Apr 19

Have You Ever Been Touched...

Have you ever been touched by a passionate person? You know what I mean if you ever have. The one who gets tears in her eyes when she realizes that...
948140Nov 2011Nov 2011Apr 19

Staying Alive - A Survival Manual For Singles

1.Understand that you are now a “mark” for many unscrupulous people that prey on the older members of society, especially the widows and widowers. 2....
80380Nov 2011Nov 2011Apr 19

Something I Need To Say...

I would just like to thank all of my aquaintances here on CS for all that you have shared over the past. I don't always have something to say, but I...
821130Sep 2011Sep 201122 hrs ago

DID YOU EVER WONDER WHY...

Did you ever wonder why that there are so many angry and hate-filled religious people. Not just one or two, but herds of them, whole nations sometime...
1,557390Sep 2011Sep 201122 hrs ago

to old to do it...

Today I feel compelled to share a true story with you, my friends here in the virtual world, because it is probably one of the best cases of “what goe...
1,027200Sep 2011Sep 2011Apr 17

IT'S ALL ABOUT THE MONEY...

How many times have you heard it said that it is not about the money… BULLCRAP! It’s ALWAYS about the money. What can you do without money? Try goi...
1,107250May 2011May 201114 hrs ago

"You Gotta Get Their Guard Down..."

The other day , while discussing the ups and downs of romance at my tender young age… (60+ and counting) with my 28 year old son John, he gave me this...
1,24160May 2011May 201118 hrs ago

I Am A Victim...

We here in America have all kinds of “rights” and “privileges” to complain about. And when we feel that we have been violated we immediately take on...
1,000100May 2011May 201122 hrs ago

I Just Had An Epiphany...

I set down to write a short article about seeking romance over the age of “50”, and for the first time in my life I thought about being “old” because...
78770Apr 2011Apr 201122 hrs ago

Only Two Kinds of People...

There are only two kinds of people in the world today… they are either part of the problem or part of the solution. Please think about this for a mom...
85580Apr 2011Apr 201122 hrs ago

WHY YOU ARE THE WAY YOU ARE...

One day when I was a small boy my dad asked me, out of total frustration I’m sure, why I was always getting into trouble. (for him that meant, not do...
77550Apr 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

What I Love About Women...

I have made a very important discovery… and at my age it is always nice to realize something that was there all of the time! I was telling a friend w...
62490Apr 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

I dunno, ask the old man...

I have achieved a new “status”, if you will, and it is one of great distinction and merit, I believe. It is being referred to as “the old man”…...
57570Apr 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

Did you say why risk it? I say why not?

When I was an outlaw, I recall someone asking me why I was choosing to follow a particular course of action when we full well knew that the risks far...
60230Apr 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

What-da-ya-mean...

Sometimes in life, a question does bear repeating. For example, I overheard the following question in a rest-stop bathroom in the mountains of northe...
87250Apr 2011Apr 201118 hrs ago

How to Spend Your Time...ie. The Real Secret to Ha

I was asked just recently the secret of my happiness… and I will freely share this one particular secret because it is so all encompassing and basic t...
81860Apr 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

When I Feel Like Working...

I heard an excellent quote the other day from one of my friends. She was telling me something someone had written in her mother’s high school yearbook...
80830Apr 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

Singles Sites - Why I came to Connecting Singles

I recently became the latest victim of internet censorship… the publishers of the last site I was on ask what I expected on a first date??? So I fille...
1,012100Mar 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

The Touch...

If you are really fortunate, at some point in your life you will meet someone and they will reach out and touch your life, as well as your flesh. Thi...
88150Mar 2011Apr 201118 hrs ago

ANGER MANAGEMENT...

One time I was waiting outside of the instructor’s office at a court imposed “anger management” class, (we won’t go into the details at this time…) a...
925100Mar 2011Apr 201118 hrs ago

THE COLOR OF LIES...

Who ever coined the term “white lies”? Does that mean lying comes in different colors, like a box of crayons? Kind of like different colors for diff...
70340Mar 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

Do I love you just for your body???

I overheard the following conversation in a parking garage in Seattle while waiting for a friend. It was between a man and a woman I am supposing was...
1,02250Apr 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

HAVE YOU FOUND YOUR CALLING?

There has been much said and written about finding one’s passion or “Calling” if you will. I have given a lot of thought as to how one would go about...
1,12370Mar 2011Apr 201118 hrs ago

Finding a Mate After 50 - Part 3

1. Above all else, remember the proverb, “Be Ye not unequally yoked…” whether it is spiritually, sensually, materially, mentally, financially, and a...
1,04770Mar 2011Apr 201118 hrs ago

Finding a Mate After 50 - Part 2

Like any task of any consequence it would behoove you to make a list of “Wants & Don’t Wants”, or “Deal Breakers”, or situations or conditions you can...
79630Mar 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

FINDING A MATE AFTER 50... a short guide.

I have decided to write a short guidebook on finding a mate after turning 50 years old. I don’t want to make the book too lengthy because a lot of pe...
1,33230Mar 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

When It's Time To Let Go - Part 2

The need to "let go" of people, things, and memories is as essential to our happiness as anything else I can think of. We are all products of the sum...
78910Mar 2011Apr 2011Apr 20

WHEN IT'S TIME TO LET GO...

Many times in our lives we are faced with the decision of whether we should continue with what we are doing, or to cut our losses and step away from a...
83730Mar 2011Apr 201118 hrs ago

BROKEN MIRRORS & TRAIN WRECKS...

I just made a terrible discovery. All of my mirrors are broken. Now I’m not sure how to explain this… I’ve heard it said that “the hallway mirror do...
70230Mar 2011Mar 2011Apr 16

WHY HELP?

The best reason I have for helping someone, when I am able, is quite selfish, actually. It is because it makes me feel useful. No matter how great o...
75140Mar 2011Mar 2011Apr 16

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