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Gamechangers

We all, whether on our profile, or just in our heads, have a list of the characteristics and qualities we would like in a potential partner. The list...
8501240Feb 15Feb 1542 mins ago

Medicating Human Needs

If you are depressed and anxious, you are not a machine with malfunctioning parts. You are a human being with unmet needs. The only real way out...
8761040Jan 25Jan 305 hrs ago

The Chase

Courting, to use Cat’s phraseology, is usually a game of cat and mouse; the predator and the prey. Not in a bad sense, but one usually does t...
2,0973030Jan 16Jan 1922 mins ago

Sell-By Date

Like food, all relationships have a sell-by date. Relationships started way back when the average life-expectancy would have been only 25-40 years...
1,4231470Dec 17Dec 256 hrs ago

Profile Honesty

How honest should we be on our profiles? Would it put people off, or would it simply attract the type we are really looking for, and who are lookin...
3,5353320Sep 16Oct 268 hrs ago

Waking up Tomorrow Morning as a Man or Woman

Imagine if you woke up tomorrow morning and you were the opposite gender? How would you handle it? How do you think your experiences would di...
2,0481890Oct 4Oct 81 hrs ago

Spark or Circumstance

We all speak about this mysterious 'spark' when two people meet for the first time. What is it? Is it real or circumstantial? There is one type...
1,2691240Sep 30Oct 223 hrs ago

Under The Red CS Moon

The stars aligned and it happened. Under the red moon, they came from every corner of the globe. Asians; Americans; Africans and Europeans. They...
995760Sep 10Sep 13Feb 17

Harvest Moon

It rose, fiery red, behind Motril, jutting out into the Mediterranean.  I thought at first it must be the setting sun as it was so low in the sky,...
688500Sep 7Sep 8Feb 17

Yet another gender blog

I, as well of all of you, have noticed the amount of blogs of late about gender differences/gender-blaming, gender-bashing and even some gender-loving...
1,5591271Aug 16Aug 1819 hrs ago

The Key to a Successful Relationship

May not be linked to external trappings such as .jobs, income, appearance, etc., — these tend to "come and go." Instead it may be Relational Sel...
741770Aug 14Aug 1419 hrs ago

s*xual Stage - Which are you at?

Apparently, there are 5 Stages of Sexuality which you could be in at any period in your life. Maybe it may be worth our while looking at them and s...
1,6031290May 2017Aug 14Feb 15

If I said you had a beautiful body..

Would you hold it against me? Any native (and good non-native) English speakers will know that sentence can be read in two different ways,...
1,255900Jul 11Jul 232 hrs ago

St. John's Eve/Bonfire Night

As I look out my window, I see plumes of smoke billowing in many parts of the city. 'Rioting and looting?', you may ask worriedly. No, it is Bon...
689130Jun 2015Jun 20175 hrs ago

Men, Sex and Sluts

What is it with men? Even the seemingly modern, progressive 'Western'-thinking men, despite what they think about themselves, still have a contra...
1,9791661Apr 2017Jun 201712 hrs ago

Good Catches

I, and I'm sure some of you do too, view other members and think, 'Yeah, they would be a good catch' Don't get me wrong, not necessarily for mysel...
981760May 2017May 201722 hrs ago

Is Fake the true danger?

We have all heard of ‘fake’ people on dating sites. Who are they really? Are they the ones who put up a profile with no pic, who have a bit of fun...
1,7671200May 2017May 2017Feb 8

Honesty – Really?

Practically without exception people rate honesty highest on the list of attributes they require of a partner. That seems perfectly reasonable and no...
946850Mar 2017Apr 2017Feb 16

Why do you want a partner?

Most of us, if not all, are on a dating site because we are looking for a partner. That is the purpose of dating sites after all. We could blog on an...
1,4641060Jan 2017Apr 2017Feb 11

Birthday Snogs for Pat!

Ladies - snog the face off of him: Men - A chaste nonsexual kiss please: http:/...
481300Mar 2017Mar 2017Feb 17

Kilted Yoga - Enjoy :-)

No words needed.......
1,187760Feb 2017Mar 2017Feb 17

You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are.

You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are The moment you’re happy on your own is when the right relationship enters your life (Myke...
1,5011400Feb 2017Feb 2017Feb 17

Saint Valentine -Interesting Facts

The Shrine of Saint Valentine - Dublin Hidden in a beautiful church with a drab, grey exterior are the remains of Valentinus, patron saint of love...
60580Feb 2014Feb 2017Feb 11

Basic Human Needs

If a woman is married to an uncommunicative man, she has the choice of talking to herself, not very satisfactory, or else sharing with friends, or eve...
1,8321540Jan 2017Jan 201756 mins ago

Christmas Party Illusion

He spotted her immediately He was starstruck at her beauty Vibrant russet locks flowing down her back Cheekbones cut from pure granite Breasts t...
731472Dec 2016Dec 20167 hrs ago

The Dangers of Finger Slippage

Am I the only person to accidently have finger-slippage when looking to see who is online, and end up perving somebody's profile by mistake? Then d...
1,410660Apr 2014Nov 20169 hrs ago

Relationships and Algorithms

Many dating sites use mathematical algorithms to match people. And charge a lot of money for this service. However, according to an article I re...
1,6581451Nov 2016Nov 2016Feb 17

What Women Really Want....

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1,119460Jun 2016Jul 201614 hrs ago

The Wedding - Woman-style

No, not getting married.. Just going to somebody else's wedding. It takes nearly as much planning as actually getting married - for the wom...
700340May 2014May 2014Feb 12

Favourite Place

Where is the nicest/best place you have ever visited, and why? (Don't include places you Want to visit, but have not yet done -that is fuel...
736320Feb 2014Feb 201413 hrs ago

Almost A Year..

It is almost a year since I joined CS, and I think it is time to reflect on that. It was also my first venture into cyber-world. I had never joined a...
1,088500Jan 2014Jan 2014Feb 9

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