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I'm so shallow What the hell is love, anyway? I spent the best part of a year feeling more and more affectionate towards a guy and he was more and more affectionate...	1,053	29	0	May 2015	May 2016	Apr 22
Ciao for now This isn't a bowing-out blog because I really just want to change my name - the one and only thing CS does not allow us to change. Age, country of ori...	894	17	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 22
If I was a cat (ok, a spoiled pampered one) I could jump five times my own height from a sitting position. I could groom myself whenever I didn't want to talk to somebo...	898	27	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 20
Double standards If I slept with many men, people would call me a slut. But when a man sleeps with many women, people call him a real man. How come? Here's one...	963	18	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 20
Haunted house I really should NOT have watched the ghost movie I just watched. No obvious scaries or skeletons going boo, what got me was the creeping horror. It wa...	730	13	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 22
Old jokes - TGIF! I just got back from a pleasure trip. I took my mother-in-law to the airport. We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops. *My wife and I wen...	708	12	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	24 hrs ago
Audio Quest speaker cables: $14 000 These cables have been discontinued. Since you can't now buy them - and may have thought $14K a bit steep - I thought you might enjoy a couple of the...	821	6	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	21 hrs ago
Polocrosse! This is the best game ever played on horseback, and the chances anyone out there in blogland knows it at all are close to non-existent - but this is a...	754	8	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 22

What? I have a soft side! It's hard when you miss people. But you know, if you miss them, it means you were lucky. It means you had someone special in your life, someone worth...	933	26	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 20
Aw We're all looking for someone. How long do we want it to last? For me, all the way, babe. All the way. Getting better and better.	787	7	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 20
Travel I used to love to travel. Canada, Australia, Africa, America, Europe, been there (bits of) and done that (most of). I still like exploring new places,...	944	16	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	24 hrs ago
A good photo Especially in my age group, guy photos need to tell a story. Most of the time, the story is 'my camera is out of focus' or 'I never used moisturizer o...	1,345	38	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 22
Eat anything you like. When you remember ... Two years ago my daughter announced she was getting married AND that she was inviting not only my ex’s platinum blonde American long-term lady friend...	866	23	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 20
Nice from far - far from nice? The whole LDR thing seems to fall into different sections - ones where you never meet but have an entire relationship on line, ones where you have lon...	1,024	33	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 20
The trick is to know exactly what you want. Do you? I realized the other day that I don't. I just want someone to offer me interesting options and wait anxiously for my careful consideration :ro...	1,362	44	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	Apr 20
Selfies There was a good definition of age on Twitter the other day. Calculate your age by the number of selfies you take, divided by the number you instantly...	1,303	40	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	23 hrs ago
Hey! I just spent 3 hours tidying up a translation of a trade manual done by an Indian agency from German into English and that's a little too exciting. No...	1,250	30	0	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	22 hrs ago
Which is easier to find? a great job or a great lo Finding a great job, one that will interest you, grow over the years, keep you enthralled, how hard is that? No harder than meeting a perfect partner....	548	6	0	May 2015	May 2015	Apr 20
Dumped Ouch. Look at that bruise, it will be a lulu. Funny mix of feelings, though. Mainly surprise ... but then he is VERY stubborn and so am I...	1,841	55	0	May 2015	May 2015	4 hrs ago
looking good vs feeling good If you feel good, does it matter what you look like? My guy still stacks pretty well against anyone on the beach. I don't. He says wear a costume...	978	7	0	May 2015	May 2015	7 hrs ago
Living with a writer 1. Never, ever, ask when the book will be published 2. Don’t ask if they wish they had written the last best-seller 3. Never say you are thinkin...	537	14	0	May 2015	May 2015	Apr 21

Wanna be a bear (old joke) I went for my spring waxing this morning. OUCH. Reminded me of an old favourite joke. In this life, I'm a woman. In my next life, I'd like to...	565	5	0	May 2015	May 2015	Apr 20
3 decisions, I am on a roll Long lazy baths are top thinking time and this morning was particularly productive as I reached three important decisions. I’m not conventional, I hav...	408	5	0	May 2015	May 2015	Apr 20
Engaging in a relationship Best relationships of my life were my 3 engagements. I was married once and turned out to be really bad at it. (My brother described it as 3 arrests,...	574	15	0	May 2015	May 2015	Apr 20
Sunday night blues Is there ever any point to doing anything? In the long run? Does trying to do things change anything? Happy comes - and goes. Sad comes - and goes...	590	24	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	Apr 20
Advising a younger guy - So, this guy, early 40s (I know, that's younger, how sad, moving on) he's bright, funny, has good qualifications and a good job which he does well. Pl...	886	33	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	17 hrs ago
so confused I like knowing what I'll be doing and feeling tomorrow, and in a week's time and, unless the universe has other plans, in a year. Very soothing. Being...	489	16	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	Apr 20
Rejected? Over it yet? I was commissioned to write an article on coping with rejection, and I could only think of six words....	638	13	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	Apr 20
that When you haven't had enough sleep, and you've got so much to do you don't know where to start and instead of getting on with it all you are messing ab...	601	6	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	Apr 20
Pretty true, this I have a commission to write a piece about rejection and remarked to my man I don't know much on the subject. He said 'not yet'. Then he was taken aba...	2,279	6	0	Apr 2015	Apr 2015	Apr 20
So what's worse? Old photo or no photo? Spotted a couple of recent blogs going on, yet again, about profiles with no pics. What do you think? does a twirl I'm not going to meet any...	870	34	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 20

Another one gone I'm a bit saddened to see someone I was quite buddy with has closed his profile down and gone. He was meeting someone last weekend so with any luck th...	727	14	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 20
over 45? test your alertness Fill in the missing letters to check your cognitive skills. People on CS do have a slight advantage because we are so usd to working round missng le...	444	17	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 20
One of my favourite jokes (I know, you probably heard it already, but some jokes are worth hearing again.) After being married for 50 years, I took a careful look at my wif...	888	9	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 20
when yes becomes no So you offered tea and she was like well, I’m not sure. So you said you’d start it and see how she felt but when you had, she decided not. A waste of...	719	27	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 20
Question - what is a another word for male lover? I've gone blank. Want to say character A is character B's lover but I'm not crazy about the word at that point - too twee. Boyfriend is even wo...	1,174	60	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	4 hrs ago
I would like to marry someone called Turner I'm by way of being a sort of writer. If Mr Turner would be kind enough to make me Mrs Turner, I could call myself Paige. I suppose I could just c...	650	19	0	Mar 2015	Mar 2015	Apr 20
In the end, only 3 things matter - How much you loved How gently you lived How gracefully you let go of things not meant for you I was told this was a Buddhism, turns out it isn...	637	9	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	Apr 20
green-eyed monster I hate being told I'm jealous. I know I'm possessive. And controlling. And like things to go my way. But jealous? Jealousy is about being unreasonable...	655	25	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	Apr 20
US East Coast Another weekend of snow and terrifying temperatures coming up for you lot, hope you are keeping well wrapped up and have laid in plenty of hot chocola...	760	13	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	Apr 20
smoking - the burning issue When I stopped for a year, my stress levels got hectic. Perfect world, I would smoke 2 or 3 a day and I vigorously defend my right to do just that. Th...	646	19	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	Apr 20
Who wears the trousers? Jack took off his trousers on his wedding day and offered them to Jill to try on. They were far too big. 'I wear the trousers in this relationship...	438	5	0	Feb 2015	Feb 2015	Apr 20

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