What is too needy? (33)

Mar 16, 2009 11:53 AM CST What is too needy?
seekerofprincess
seekerofprincessseekerofprincessLondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 50 Posts
any other stories out there??? what makes them so clingy????
Mar 16, 2009 7:21 PM CST What is too needy?
curvychick
curvychickcurvychickToronto, Ontario Canada14 Threads 1 Polls 253 Posts
seekerofprincess: Yes i rememebr suffocating too, lol. she has also claimed she loved me after 5 days.


HEY seeker, at least she waited FIVE days...

how about the next freaking day...when you only spent THREE hours with that person, say g'nite and then get home to get a freaking message that "I LOVE YOU...TRULY I DO"""

wow wow wow .I was FLABBERGASTED....

and all I can think is "press 7, delete the freaking message and nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnext!"

frustrated frustrated

geesh...had me running for the hills....and we don't have many of those in T.O. !!!!

wine >>>>>>> REALLY NEEDED ONE OF THESE

curvy cheering
Mar 16, 2009 9:14 PM CST What is too needy?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
I think they are so needy as they don't have alot of self confidance. Also, i beleive that those that are needy let thier past relationship experiences rule how they proceed with new relationships.
I dated an individual for two years. The neediness kind of killed whatever feeling was there. Compassion is nice, but, it can only go so far because, it seems difficult for needy people to "become unneedy".
I think that i must draw needy people, so now i am making sure that if i decide to date, self confidance is a must, or i don't think that i will bother.
Mar 18, 2009 8:55 AM CST What is too needy?
seekerofprincess
seekerofprincessseekerofprincessLondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 50 Posts
haha! wow im starting to feel better! thanks all! Keep em coming!
Mar 18, 2009 8:59 AM CST What is too needy?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
lol keep runnin. hey there mr howz it going???????wave
Mar 19, 2009 8:06 AM CST What is too needy?
seekerofprincess
seekerofprincessseekerofprincessLondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 50 Posts
ahhhh...needy due to lack of self confidence...perhaps...i think mine was needy due to lack of affection or attention from her last relationship...thoughts anyone?
Mar 19, 2009 10:06 AM CST What is too needy?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
sum ppl are just born needy and they get more needy as time goes onconfused
Mar 25, 2009 8:10 AM CST What is too needy?
seekerofprincess
seekerofprincessseekerofprincessLondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 50 Posts
ahhh so a needy person to you is a compliment. i had thought the same for a while but got creepy.
Apr 1, 2009 8:20 AM CST What is too needy?
seekerofprincess
seekerofprincessseekerofprincessLondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 50 Posts
more thoughts anyone?
Apr 1, 2009 3:08 PM CST What is too needy?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
seekerofprincess: ahhhh...needy due to lack of self confidence...perhaps...i think mine was needy due to lack of affection or attention from her last relationship...thoughts anyone?


well, speaking only for myself, lack of affection or attention, in my marriage (thankfully that is overpeace ), just made me way more independant. So....maybe for some it works that way, actually maybe for alot.
Apr 2, 2009 7:46 AM CST What is too needy?
seekerofprincess
seekerofprincessseekerofprincessLondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 50 Posts
Interesting..,.thankfully she has moved on!!! :)
Jun 10, 2009 5:06 PM CST What is too needy?
Dbl_Trbl_45
Dbl_Trbl_45Dbl_Trbl_45windsor, Ontario Canada5 Posts
sounds like you have had a tough spring seeker
Jun 11, 2009 10:00 AM CST What is too needy?
WaterDragpn
WaterDragpnWaterDragpnToowoomba, Queensland Australia1 Threads 215 Posts
I think some people are simply emotional vampires and suck iit out of wherever they can find it.

Soemtimes, though, it might be just a little help along the way. But if it continues and becomes all consumeing get the garlic out! lol
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