Thanks to two very bright woman here (Gypsy)and the help of another smart woman (Hugz) I have figured out what the problem was with my new guy. He is the strong silent type, and a scorpio and doesn't tend to open up easily. Now I know to be patient with him and take my time and not pressure him. And I have never had this type of man, so this could be very interesting trip. Ha!!
And I found some very cool videos by a woman called Kara Oh and she has some great advice for us women on 4 really important subjects. The main thing us women should watch these is cause there is more in each of these that give us more clues than just the topic. Oh course some women already know these things, such as my two very smart friends above. But I want to share what I found.
1. Why men don't open up 2. Why men don't call back 3. Why men don't commit 4. Why the prince is in your way
rodolpho: Cool you discovered we think before we talk instead of the other way round
This explains his moments of silences too, now I understand. And I thought it was cause he couldn't think of something else to talk about. But instead he was thinking on the last thing still.
mylifewithu: Thanks to two very bright woman here (Gypsy)and the help of another smart woman (Hugz) I have figured out what the problem was with my new guy. He is the strong silent type, and a scorpio and doesn't tend to open up easily. Now I know to be patient with him and take my time and not pressure him. And I have never had this type of man, so this could be very interesting trip. Ha!!
And I found some very cool videos by a woman called Kara Oh and she has some great advice for us women on 4 really important subjects. The main thing us women should watch these is cause there is more in each of these that give us more clues than just the topic. Oh course some women already know these things, such as my two very smart friends above. But I want to share what I found.
1. Why men don't open up 2. Why men don't call back 3. Why men don't commit 4. Why the prince is in your way
This woman is pretty good in my opinion. And you guys can discuss with us if you open up or not and what you think about all of this.
Welllllllllll if I was that smart about men darlin...I probably wouldn't still be single....BUT thanx anyway...Glad I could help doll and yes I will be watching the videos too....
mylifewithu: Thanks to two very bright woman here (Gypsy)and the help of another smart woman (Hugz) I have figured out what the problem was with my new guy. He is the strong silent type, and a scorpio and doesn't tend to open up easily. Now I know to be patient with him and take my time and not pressure him. And I have never had this type of man, so this could be very interesting trip. Ha!!
And I found some very cool videos by a woman called Kara Oh and she has some great advice for us women on 4 really important subjects. The main thing us women should watch these is cause there is more in each of these that give us more clues than just the topic. Oh course some women already know these things, such as my two very smart friends above. But I want to share what I found.
1. Why men don't open up 2. Why men don't call back 3. Why men don't commit 4. Why the prince is in your way
This woman is pretty good in my opinion. And you guys can discuss with us if you open up or not and what you think about all of this.
Thanks hunni, I'm glad I could help as well.
I've pretty much figured it all out, and don't really need to watch the videos, but if there's hot guys in it, I'll give it a shot.
I have found someone that is far too young, far too sweet and far too everything wonderful. I am his evil opposite
It probably won't last because he is a bit too wonderful for the likes of me, but I am trying to hang in there. We just kinda have bad timing right now.
Anyway, thanks for mentioning the attention hos...You know we love you for it and well, you know we just love you too
Hugz_n_Kissez: Welllllllllll if I was that smart about men darlin...I probably wouldn't still be single....BUT thanx anyway...Glad I could help doll and yes I will be watching the videos too....
NO, not quite right. You are smart for still being single Thing of your life and what would have happened had you hooked up with someone that you met--for life. That wouldn't have been smart, now would it have been? You are a smart beautiful woman for not taking second (or a millionth) best, and waiting for your man to cross paths. There's nothing wrong with that. It is the sane thing to do-even though it is maddening at times.
stop being rude to yourself, or I'll have to come over there with the duct tape on the other hand... carry on...
gypsykisses: NO, not quite right. You are smart for still being single Thing of your life and what would have happened had you hooked up with someone that you met--for life. That wouldn't have been smart, now would it have been? You are a smart beautiful woman for not taking second (or a millionth) best, and waiting for your man to cross paths. There's nothing wrong with that. It is the sane thing to do-even though it is maddening at times.
stop being rude to yourself, or I'll have to come over there with the duct tape on the other hand... carry on...
think
I must have been thinking about all the "things" we've met so far
gypsykisses: NO, not quite right. You are smart for still being single Thing of your life and what would have happened had you hooked up with someone that you met--for life. That wouldn't have been smart, now would it have been? You are a smart beautiful woman for not taking second (or a millionth) best, and waiting for your man to cross paths. There's nothing wrong with that. It is the sane thing to do-even though it is maddening at times.
stop being rude to yourself, or I'll have to come over there with the duct tape on the other hand... carry on...
Welllllllll when ya look at it that way I guess you're right doll....and NOT the dreaded duct tape...Ohhhhhhhh and only if you do...cause you deserve the best and wonderful...nobody can ever be too wonderful or too anything really if it's all good doll....
Hugz_n_Kissez: Welllllllll when ya look at it that way I guess you're right doll....and NOT the dreaded duct tape...Ohhhhhhhh and only if you do...cause you deserve the best and wonderful...nobody can ever be too wonderful or too anything really if it's all good doll....
well, we'll see. I truly think he deserves better. it's just my opinion and no amount of words will change that. Anyway with the back thing, it's just bad timing because I don't feel all mushy and stuff. He's a beautiful person, whatever happens, I know that we will always be close friends.
gypsykisses: well, we'll see. I truly think he deserves better. it's just my opinion and no amount of words will change that. Anyway with the back thing, it's just bad timing because I don't feel all mushy and stuff. He's a beautiful person, whatever happens, I know that we will always be close friends.
unless he turns out to be a troll
Wellllllllll you don't have to be mushy doll...It takes time to get to that place sometimes...and Ehemmmmmmmm...I say you do need to change your opinion...You deserve the BEST now know that...accept it and that's what you will have....
branded: So where's the links to learn how to understand woman ? And would that be more of a series than just 4 videos ?
..........And that is a impossible .....to understand 'Woman'....My Wonderful Dutch Grandmother once said to me as a young Man...'Don't even try....You will go totally insane if you try '.. A very wise Grand Mother she wise...bless her....
Omg Girls this guy of mine takes the silent type to the limits.
In this first video it said guys will go quiet and think about what was said and to wait on him is best. I found out if I do that then I get to just hear him watching tv or messing with his computer. Nothing changed. I think this one doesn't follow the book on men.
Hugz_n_Kissez: Welllllllllll if I was that smart about men darlin...I probably wouldn't still be single....BUT thanx anyway...Glad I could help doll and yes I will be watching the videos too....
mylifewithu: Omg Girls this guy of mine takes the silent type to the limits.
In this first video it said guys will go quiet and think about what was said and to wait on him is best. I found out if I do that then I get to just hear him watching tv or messing with his computer. Nothing changed. I think this one doesn't follow the book on men.
Hello Everyone
Yeahhhhhh there always has to be a glitch doesn't there...Just when ya think ya got em all figured out...ya don't..
gypsykisses: Thanks hunni, I'm glad I could help as well.
I've pretty much figured it all out, and don't really need to watch the videos, but if there's hot guys in it, I'll give it a shot.
I have found someone that is far too young, far too sweet and far too everything wonderful. I am his evil opposite
It probably won't last because he is a bit too wonderful for the likes of me, but I am trying to hang in there. We just kinda have bad timing right now.
Anyway, thanks for mentioning the attention hos...You know we love you for it and well, you know we just love you too
Nope no hot guys in them unfortunately , Just a woman telling about men.
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And I found some very cool videos by a woman called Kara Oh and she has some great advice for us women on 4 really important subjects. The main thing us women should watch these is cause there is more in each of these that give us more clues than just the topic. Oh course some women already know these things, such as my two very smart friends above. But I want to share what I found.
1. Why men don't open up
2. Why men don't call back
3. Why men don't commit
4. Why the prince is in your way
This woman is pretty good in my opinion.
And you guys can discuss with us if you open up or not and what you think about all of this.