I got the hots for somebody. (54)
You go girl.....
Jan1305: Here on CS!
It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.
It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.
It took me well over a year here to feel like this... I was convinced it would be hopeless.
You never know Jan, it may go somewhere, I say go for it...
Talk to him, don't be so set in your ways about it all...
Jan1305: Here on CS!
It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.
It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.
Well Jan, that is absolutely fabulous. Never say Never!
You just never can know whats in the future......Maybe this "something" that captured your heart is to encourage you. You`ve always been a bit sceptical about all this, haven`t you? Hey! Maybe its to encourage us too?!
Thanks for sharing that with us here...
Lillym: You go girl.....
But go where???? Emailing for a lifetime???
Jan1305: But go where???? Emailing for a lifetime???
Oh c'mon, don't get all negative...
Book a flight....just do him it...
Ask him to come and live in Spain? it's a wonderful country to live in.
In response to: Here on CS!
It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.
It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.
Jan....
Take it in stride and enjoy.....Happy happy happy.....enjoyImma
You are all so lovely...except Lago´s do him comment 
It´s very early days, and he is so lovely really....I think. No pressure, just see how things go from him, which is perfect.
I did want to share smoky, you are so perceptive, because I have always been sceptical as you say, and my guard is always up.
For some reason it dropped.....just a little for now at least.
Anyway, it´s not a "I am in love thread", I don´t like them, just a little about Jan´s funny feelings at the moment.
It´s very early days, and he is so lovely really....I think. No pressure, just see how things go from him, which is perfect.
I did want to share smoky, you are so perceptive, because I have always been sceptical as you say, and my guard is always up.
For some reason it dropped.....just a little for now at least.
Anyway, it´s not a "I am in love thread", I don´t like them, just a little about Jan´s funny feelings at the moment.
Jan, PM him, mail him..what ever. Nothing ventured nothing gained.Phone him and say "Dude,I want your body, heart, mind and soul"...
Book a flight and go and spend a weekend with him...What have you got to loose..
Book a flight and go and spend a weekend with him...What have you got to loose..
Let's say you feel the butterfly tickle...
That sounds wonderful Jan...good luck!!
I have to listen carefully to my brain not to my heart as i do feel the same way as you, about someone...
That sounds wonderful Jan...good luck!!
I have to listen carefully to my brain not to my heart as i do feel the same way as you, about someone...
Phoenix: Jan, PM him, mail him..what ever. Nothing ventured nothing gained.Phone him and say "Dude,I want your body, heart, mind and soul"...
Book a flight and go and spend a weekend with him...What have you got to loose..
Book a flight and go and spend a weekend with him...What have you got to loose..
Oooo no I can´t. I´m too scared to do anything so risky.
I would like his body, hear mind and soul though!
Jan1305: You are all so lovely...except Lago´s do him comment
It´s very early days, and he is so lovely really....I think. No pressure, just see how things go from him, which is perfect.
I did want to share smoky, you are so perceptive, because I have always been sceptical as you say, and my guard is always up.
For some reason it dropped.....just a little for now at least.
Anyway, it´s not a "I am in love thread", I don´t like them, just a little about Jan´s funny feelings at the moment.
It´s very early days, and he is so lovely really....I think. No pressure, just see how things go from him, which is perfect.
I did want to share smoky, you are so perceptive, because I have always been sceptical as you say, and my guard is always up.
For some reason it dropped.....just a little for now at least.
Anyway, it´s not a "I am in love thread", I don´t like them, just a little about Jan´s funny feelings at the moment.
Even sensible people fall in love......... you can hide but you shall be found! Good luck and remember that 'Where there's a will there's a way' - as long as you don't live on other planets!
rusty_knight: Even sensible people fall in love......... you can hide but you shall be found! Good luck and remember that 'Where there's a will there's a way' - as long as you don't live on other planets!
Oh Rusty, you make me feel like a really boring person. Is that how people perceive me here?
I´m not really you know!
Jan1305: Oh Rusty, you make me feel like a really boring person. Is that how people perceive me here?
I´m not really you know!
I´m not really you know!
We know ...
And I am happy we got one more into our corner of believers.
Now, the problem with this internet thing is that the world may seem smaller, but outside our window, a km is still 1000 meter.
Feelings though, they can not walk, they always fly with the speed of light.
Jan1305: Oh Rusty, you make me feel like a really boring person. Is that how people perceive me here?
I´m not really you know!
I´m not really you know!
Not at all - sensible doesn't mean boring at all!
We can't all act like little kids, can we?
ok, some 'sensible' people can be boring, but certainly not you!
Jan1305: Here on CS!
It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.
It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.
Strange things are sometimes at work, Jan. Online is no different
In July last year, I was contacted by one of the faceless men here. I think using only four or so words. I was instantly smitten. How does one explain that? We met several months later while I was on a trip o/s.
Just 'go with the flow', as they say.
I'm happy for the hit you're feeling inside you. Must be nice to feel it every now and then.
Please don't move from Spain
Have you spoke to this geezer? Like everyone says, go with the flow and contact him...Dont be afraid.
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It´s a first for me and I´m going a bit crazy. I hardly know him, but there is something which has captured my heart. I don´t understand it, I´ve always said this couldn´t happen online and been a little scornful of the whole thing in the past.
He is too far away alas, and I´m not moving from Spain, so unlikely that it will go anywhere, but the experience has certainly made me think twice about online relationships.