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dodgemaguire: ...I need love!!
Shame that the only person I am infatuated with denies she has any feelings for me at all...(i was told by her friend that deep down she does like me a lot!!) mabye she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, but i am not fond of living in a state of denial...even when i moved away i could sense she missed my company I wish life wasn't so complex...
Shame that the only person I am infatuated with denies she has any feelings for me at all...(i was told by her friend that deep down she does like me a lot!!) mabye she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, but i am not fond of living in a state of denial...even when i moved away i could sense she missed my company I wish life wasn't so complex...
Maybe she does like you alot but not romantically just as friends I care alot for some of my male friends and would love them but wouldnt be in love with them.
dodgemaguire: ...I need love!!
Shame that the only person I am infatuated with denies she has any feelings for me at all...(i was told by her friend that deep down she does like me a lot!!) mabye she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, but i am not fond of living in a state of denial...even when i moved away i could sense she missed my company I wish life wasn't so complex...
Shame that the only person I am infatuated with denies she has any feelings for me at all...(i was told by her friend that deep down she does like me a lot!!) mabye she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, but i am not fond of living in a state of denial...even when i moved away i could sense she missed my company I wish life wasn't so complex...
have you ever told her how you feel and asked her out straight if anything could happen,or have you ever took a step back-ie-no contact with her-if to see would she make a move to contact you of her own want...
dodgemaguire: ...I need love!!
Shame that the only person I am infatuated with denies she has any feelings for me at all...(i was told by her friend that deep down she does like me a lot!!) mabye she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, but i am not fond of living in a state of denial...even when i moved away i could sense she missed my company I wish life wasn't so complex...
Shame that the only person I am infatuated with denies she has any feelings for me at all...(i was told by her friend that deep down she does like me a lot!!) mabye she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, but i am not fond of living in a state of denial...even when i moved away i could sense she missed my company I wish life wasn't so complex...
one way love is a bummer....dont hold onto it if shes not interested...move on...
lancerbora: have you ever told her how you feel and asked her out straight if anything could happen,or have you ever took a step back-ie-no contact with her-if to see would she make a move to contact you of her own want...
i did do that...no contact for weeks...and she told me she wanted to meet up but went on a date "apparently" with someone else.
I think the date was an excuse for her not to meet up with me...i heard it was a "fake date"...she did meet up with me recently and asked if i was holding a housewarming party...I still don't know if she is flirting with me on some level...
it does my head in...
love is a blessing and a curse!!!
dodgemaguire: i did do that...no contact for weeks...and she told me she wanted to meet up but went on a date "apparently" with someone else.
I think the date was an excuse for her not to meet up with me...i heard it was a "fake date"...she did meet up with me recently and asked if i was holding a housewarming party...I still don't know if she is flirting with me on some level...
it does my head in...
love is a blessing and a curse!!!
I think the date was an excuse for her not to meet up with me...i heard it was a "fake date"...she did meet up with me recently and asked if i was holding a housewarming party...I still don't know if she is flirting with me on some level...
it does my head in...
love is a blessing and a curse!!!
no,ive seen this before and you will waste your life on this..she isnt in love with you,she knows you are in love with her..
it isnt fair on you and you should move on,as soon as you meet someone-which you will,you will see the time youve wasted here..
dont waste your heart and time on this-xx
lancerbora: no,ive seen this before and you will waste your life on this..she isnt in love with you,she knows you are in love with her..
it isnt fair on you and you should move on,as soon as you meet someone-which you will,you will see the time youve wasted here..
dont waste your heart and time on this-xx
it isnt fair on you and you should move on,as soon as you meet someone-which you will,you will see the time youve wasted here..
dont waste your heart and time on this-xx
Thanks for the advice...i've pretty much known this girl 7 years and she hasn't even given me closure.
Still don't know why she gets so annoyed when i hug other women though...if i tried to hug her she'd get weirded out on me!!
dodgemaguire: Thanks for the advice...i've pretty much known this girl 7 years and she hasn't even given me closure.
Still don't know why she gets so annoyed when i hug other women though...if i tried to hug her she'd get weirded out on me!!
Still don't know why she gets so annoyed when i hug other women though...if i tried to hug her she'd get weirded out on me!!
yeah i can imagine-you hold on incase she decides to be with you-and all the while this girl is living her life..
she knows shes a decent guy there if she wants him..
but if she really cared for you deeply.she would not want you hurting,and would give you the closure and respect to allow you move on emotionally.
Dont wait for her to give you closure.
Close that door yourself and walk away. Sounds like she may be playing you.
Close that door yourself and walk away. Sounds like she may be playing you.
lancerbora: yeah i can imagine-you hold on incase she decides to be with you-and all the while this girl is living her life..
she knows shes a decent guy there if she wants him..
but if she really cared for you deeply.she would not want you hurting,and would give you the closure and respect to allow you move on emotionally.
she knows shes a decent guy there if she wants him..
but if she really cared for you deeply.she would not want you hurting,and would give you the closure and respect to allow you move on emotionally.
So I guess the moral of the story is to move on really
Well i suppose in my conscience i did that already by moving away from my hometown...
dodgemaguire: So I guess the moral of the story is to move on really
Well i suppose in my conscience i did that already by moving away from my hometown...
Well i suppose in my conscience i did that already by moving away from my hometown...
look,its easy to say move on,,,its the doing it thats hard...i know ive been there,big time..
you have to realise that maybe you need to be less nice to her,even if it hurts,and you need to use your own strength to do that.
you have someone on a pedastel ,when if they were that great and had any deep feelings for you,would never hurt you,use you,or treat you like someone they can contact whenever they feel like it,then blank you whenever they feel like it.
a little bit of anger,a little bit of im bloody sick of this attitude and maybe you will see it for what it is...
FriendlyFeline: Dont wait for her to give you closure.
Close that door yourself and walk away. Sounds like she may be playing you.
Close that door yourself and walk away. Sounds like she may be playing you.
Do some women really save guys for future relationships.... i mean, do they go through a string of men and then decide that "ah that nice guy that liked me a hell of a lot will do now"
dodgemaguire: Do some women really save guys for future relationships.... i mean, do they go through a string of men and then decide that "ah that nice guy that liked me a hell of a lot will do now"
no,not me or any of my mates....im sure weve all had a guy that was like the decent guy who we never really was interested in but thought he was a great guy....
but holding onto a guy just in case...i think the girl in ur sights is just getting an ego kick out of the fact she has full control of a man,even if all the ones she actually wants treats her like crap-she still has control of you,and she will never give that up===i bet my right arm,you have always done anything for her,always been there,would do anything,drive the country to help her in need,,,,,and i also bet she knows it !!!!
lancerbora: no,not me or any of my mates....im sure weve all had a guy that was like the decent guy who we never really was interested in but thought he was a great guy....
but holding onto a guy just in case...i think the girl in ur sights is just getting an ego kick out of the fact she has full control of a man,even if all the ones she actually wants treats her like crap-she still has control of you,and she will never give that up===i bet my right arm,you have always done anything for her,always been there,would do anything,drive the country to help her in need,,,,,and i also bet she knows it !!!!
but holding onto a guy just in case...i think the girl in ur sights is just getting an ego kick out of the fact she has full control of a man,even if all the ones she actually wants treats her like crap-she still has control of you,and she will never give that up===i bet my right arm,you have always done anything for her,always been there,would do anything,drive the country to help her in need,,,,,and i also bet she knows it !!!!
I know in my friends case this is pretty much a sub-conscious scenario...other than that I mean we are great friends who have a good laugh...i suppose i should emotionally detatch from her a bit though...it will be hard though!!
dodgemaguire: I know in my friends case this is pretty much a sub-conscious scenario...other than that I mean we are great friends who have a good laugh...i suppose i should emotionally detatch from her a bit though...it will be hard though!!
it will,,,but its what will free you from this,believe me,you will waste so much of your life waiting.....
the hardest things we have to do in our lives are the things that make us stronger-its not a cliche,its true....
lancerbora: the hardest things we have to do in our lives are the things that make us stronger-its not a cliche,its true....
Good analogy!!
well,you can always come on here,,,and il help you along the way....lifes hard enough,dont be giving yourself heartache..
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Shame that the only person I am infatuated with denies she has any feelings for me at all...(i was told by her friend that deep down she does like me a lot!!) mabye she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, but i am not fond of living in a state of denial...even when i moved away i could sense she missed my company