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She recently had a short-lived relationship with a guy, who told her not to get too serious from the get-go. Now, he won't return her calls or texts. But she just keeps talking about him & how much she misses him. She wonders why he won't talk to her. She says he'll be back. She goes on & on... & on about him.
I don't know what to say to console her. I mean, I'm not going to tell her he'll be back, when I don't really think he will be. I try to just sit there & listen, to be a sounding board. But then, I feel guilty for not giving her answers. She says she just wants to talk to him so she can have closure. I try to tell her that by his not responding, he's trying to give her closure. We have very different views on that subject.
What can I do? I'd like to just say, 'GET OVER IT!' But I do know she's hurting & it really bothers her. With us being so different in how we handle this type of thing (I tend to just shrug my shoulders & walk away, she needs to talk to them & say her piece), I don't know what to do for her or what to tell her.
Any advice?