Why is it that there are a small group of people who want what someone else has...
I am referring to wanting someone elses friend/partner etc...
They will do anything to make sure they get that person including lying and bad mouthing the other person and literally accusing them of doing and saying things they have not....
Do you think it gives them kicks to destroy a persons happiness...
Tamarin: Why is it that there are a small group of people who want what someone else has...
I am referring to wanting someone elses friend/partner etc...
They will do anything to make sure they get that person including lying and bad mouthing the other person and literally accusing them of doing and saying things they have not....
Do you think it gives them kicks to destroy a persons happiness...
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Tamarin: Why is it that there are a small group of people who want what someone else has...
I am referring to wanting someone elses friend/partner etc...
They will do anything to make sure they get that person including lying and bad mouthing the other person and literally accusing them of doing and saying things they have not....
Do you think it gives them kicks to destroy a persons happiness...
Well there is someone on here that tends to always attack me about me and my husband..
Saying we are not Married and he is just my Fantasy
Calling me all sorts of trashy names..
People are People i quess and do many terrible things to get what they want or make others feel bad like they do..
Tamarin: Why is it that there are a small group of people who want what someone else has...
I am referring to wanting someone elses friend/partner etc...
They will do anything to make sure they get that person including lying and bad mouthing the other person and literally accusing them of doing and saying things they have not....
Do you think it gives them kicks to destroy a persons happiness...
It would be hard to know what they are thinking or that if its a kick they are getting. To destroy someone elses happiness is F@*# up thinking to begin with......JMO :-)
Jealously, and it's not just women who do this. Men can be just as envious of what other men have and may do things such as try to take someone or something away. Takes all sorts to have the world go 'round. I think if we are comfortable with ourself, secure in our relationships then nothing should cause this sort of worry. If we aren't secure in ourselves, our place in life and our relationships, then we (especially as couples) need to work on that.
Tamarin: I think it also boils down to that some off us would never hurt a person especially another female.....I guess some have higher morals than others....
My grandma once said to me there would be no bad men in this world if there where not the handle full of evil women....
It takes two to tango....
But I do know that there are women out there who are prepared to go to any lenghts to get their man.....and I mean any....they will sabbatage a perfectly good family, marriage, woman and children that is in her path.....and with no remorse I may add...
rodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3,401 posts
Tamarin: Why is it that there are a small group of people who want what someone else has...
I am referring to wanting someone elses friend/partner etc...
They will do anything to make sure they get that person including lying and bad mouthing the other person and literally accusing them of doing and saying things they have not....
Do you think it gives them kicks to destroy a persons happiness...
Yes i call it the jerry springer effect,some people want you to feel as bad as they do cos it makes them feel better. remember the saying all's fair in love and war,I dont support it im just reminding you how screwed up some people are.
It might give them kicks to destroy someones happiness but I think one of the reasons they do it is to show the person that they can do it. I think it builds their self-esteem and confidence level.
If you're referring to a man and woman relationship, I think sometimes they don't really want the other person...they just want to show that they can do it.
Tamarin: Would you tell the person that you wants attention complete and utter lies about the other person so as to get what you want?
It just is not in my make up and I could not do it to another human being so find it hard to understand why another would do it to you?
I was the object of lies once and it was devastating to me. It tore a perfectly good friendship apart and took about 6 months to repair it to a point of civility again. There is always more than one side to a story, but to tell lies in order to get to what you want is not only rude, but devious and should show the person(s) who are involved what type person that he/she really is. Why would someone tolerate someone else like that? In my personal case, the friend involved finally realized it, but it took a long time. We're friends once again, but not nearly as close. I won't get that close again to another man as "friends". It's not worth it. (But that could be another thread).
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I am referring to wanting someone elses friend/partner etc...
They will do anything to make sure they get that person including lying and bad mouthing the other person and literally accusing them of doing and saying things they have not....
Do you think it gives them kicks to destroy a persons happiness...